Agree with Margypops---- I had a big milk drinker and when I cut back on milk, more eating took place. Good luck.
All finger foods, and no feeding her let her feed herself, put in front of her a sippy cup of water, and Crackers, cheerios, small bites of cheese chicken, peas, beans, if you give her grapes cut them into quarters they are notorious for sticking in little throats, banana, little bits of broccoli .TIf you feed her a lot of milk it will take her appetite away so add other foods and less milk, sometimes it is good to take a step back and let her feed herself. Good Luck