my son raped

[ashay266]

yesteday night my ten years old son told me that he was raped by a servant boy almost four year back and he told me that he did this when he came back fom school coz at that time i was not at home. my son dont tell lie as  i know his nature/i am a single parent and now i am in shock like state as i can feel the pain m so much hurt and tense please help me wat to do now.he told me so late as he said he was afraid of that guy who did that that he wil beat him.

[Emzie99]

I am from Pakistan too. I was a 9 year old girl when a house servant who was almost 20 too, got me alone on the roof and attacked me. Everyone was at home but they were downstairs so no one knew what was happening just a floor above them. I understand your son keeping it a secret because I too feared greatly that I would be punished or get into trouble if I told anyone. He left soon afterwards, but now I feel guilty for not reporting him because sexual predators are mentally sick and they continue doing these harmful acts to innocent little kids throughout their lifetime. They need to be locked away in jail so no more children are harmed. I am so very sorry that your son had to go through this. But I am so happy to hear that as a Pakistani mother you have put aside the cultural taboo of a male child rape, and decided to punish the *******. Please seek counselling for your child. When a child or anyone is raped, it is impossible that they would grow up without the awful effects of the trauma. Please seek professional Counselling for your child so he can deal better with the awful trauma as this may lead him to suicidal behavior in a few years. It did with me and with all of my friends (male and female) who were sexually abused. Also if you need any help, do not hesitate to contact me on: ***@****
God bless you both

[ashay266]

im from pakistan.

[ashay266]

my son was seven years and that bastered was near twenty.dear im in trauma right now but soon i will start finding that guy and im not going to spare him i sweare ,im living in pakistan

[RockRose]

I agree with Margy - unless "servant" is some kind of autocorrect error,  I don't know what culture you live in and what laws or services are available to help out.

[margypops]

Not certain where you live but here in The US  would report the abuser to the authorities., he may do it to others ..I find children do not tell lies about abuse and I am glad you say that .How old was the servant ?