potty training muteblind

sir,am mum 2 7yr nonverbal blind with normal hearing boy.he refuses 2 to do potty sitting on commode though he is not afraid of sitting on the pot. does everything except potty.lately has started messing his room,wall,himself when he does potty in his underpants.does pee in the pot when taken at regular intervals.does not want 2 wear diaper as a result our lives have become so stressed keeping a constant watch on him 24 hrs even social life has become nil.plz can u help.bharti

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

Unfortunately I don't expect I'll be much help to you. In addition to his physical limttaions, it sounds like there is emotional disturbance as well. Depending on the resources where you live, it might be reasonabvle that he live in a residential school where his difficulties can be addressed. This sounds like more than can be managed in a family setting.