several sexual conduct

I when my daughter was 3, i caught her on top of her doll with her panties down covered with her blanket..I was in schocked. I told her what was she doing and told me that she was playing tag. I told her not to lie and she said that she saw me on top her dad. I more schocked and didn't know to say. I told her that was for grown up things and little kids shouldn't be those things. Sometimes out of nowhere she tell people what she saw. My aunt told me that she said lets play mom and dad and got on top of her. I told her not to play mom and dad like that now she plays mom and daughter. She also has this thing about talking out her vagina. She would say "oh my vagina " and touches it. Now I know that is why she has her hands in her panties and that there are others girls that do that so it's ok. I thought that it was just her. She also gets mad and cries when I change the channel when some sexual activity would show not porn though or I would tell her to cover her eyes. Thats what my dad would do with sisters and I.My mom never talked to us about sex or our menstrual period.My aunt say to let her look so she won't be so
courios to see. I'm just worried that she'll use sexual conduct her friends especially boys.

[puprock97]

It is normal for younger children to be like this. But tell her and explain to her that saying "Oh my vagina" is not acceptable.
Do you think someone in your family might have possibly molested her? The most likely person I could think of now is your aunt, because I don't know where she could have picked up the word vagina.

Best of luck

[jwrakosy]

Hi,

You mentioned your daughter's behavior when she was 3, how old is she now?
I find it very strange that your aunt is telling you to let her watch sexual content on tv.
From the time my son was born I switch my tv programs from grown up to kid friendly, and only would watch my programs when he was sleeping. Now that he is in school I have more time to watch my own programs.

[marbeth0831]

She is 4 now. I feel strange when she told me that. I mean I don't let her watch porn but when I watch spanish soap opera or a movie and their sexual activity not actual sex I just change it.  Yesterday I went to this relatives house she has a little boy who is seven. She told me that her son told her that my daughter said "lets play mom and dad and you get on top of me". Also she was playing with my neighbors son who is five. She told my mom to go inside becuse they were playing. Than she told me the same thing when I would check on her. Like if she new what she was playing wasn't appropriate. Thats what I was afraid of happening. I want to be vice versa, to tell me if anybody kid or adult ask her to play like that way that is not right. I do tell her if anybody touches her privates she needs to tell me. How do you think would be the best way to talk to her about playing this way with her friends?