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sexual issues with step father with step daughter

Where do I ask about sexual actions of step father and step teen.  Touching butt and getting mad if he can't. walking in on her in the bathroom. wanting to take her places with him out of town not mother.  walking in her bedroom and shutting the door.  Buying her things.


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10487905 tn?1421080183
I am really worried about  your granddaughter, I would like to hear back from you to get more information on this.  But something needs to be done if the mother is ignoring this, have you talked to your granddaughter about this? If so what does she say about it?  She could always go to the school counselor and talk about what is going on and if there is something they will call childrens protection services. But something needs to be done if this is making her uncomfortable for sure!
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973741 tn?1342342773
Well, that's certainly true.  If she is bothered by his 'affection', then it must stop!!  

It's just hard to figure out this kind of situation without any details such as when he came into the picture---  has he lived with her a long time?  

I'd be furious with your daughter!  If she selfishly wants a man so bad that she allows him to make her child uncomfortable or in danger, that's really scary. She loses her mom license!  

Protective services is always there and you can call it in anonymously if you are more comfortable and they will investigate.  

We always have to protect a child.  good luck
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10487905 tn?1421080183
Well there is something wrong with that if she doesn't want him to touch her butt or if it makes her uncomfortable than there is definitely something wrong with it! By the way how old is she?  And bas she grown up around him or what is the situation? The best thing to do is contact chlid protection service or the police if you really feel like there is something bad going on, maybe they could go to her school and talk to her that way its not around him or her mom. Have you tried talking to her about this?
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973741 tn?1342342773
I'm, to be honest, not seeing what you are saying.  How long has he been in the picture?  Like, how long has he known her?  What does the mother think?
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because the mother is not doing anything
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Grandmother
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have you ever read about sexual predators?.
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Most often when someone s up to no good they try to hide it but he seems very open with what he is doing.
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Hi, all that you mention dont set off any alarms to me. Whats your relationship to them?
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