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It sounds like you have a gentle-natured child.
I would encourage you to understand your child's natural temperment, and encourage him to do things that make him feel comfortable. I would also discourage you from doing things that make him obviously uncomfortable, like tickling him or playing rough. I would think a child would be very upset/ hurt/ confused if his parents kept playing games with him that he did not like.