My 4 year old son said that he didn't want to get married. He then said he was going to marry a man. Does this mean he could be gay? He has never said or done anything to suggest this, except this. He is quiet at school, but makes friends and is quite loud at home. I don't care if a person is gay, but I guess when I think it may be my son, I do worry. The teasing, the not fitting in, etc. I don't believe anyone wants their kids to be gay. Why would they want to make their children's lives harder. What do you think? Perhaps, I am overreacting and I know sometimes kids say sill things. A kid I know said she wanted to be a pony when she grows up or marry her mommy. Any input would be appreciated. thanks