First off, I want to compliment this forum as well as the experts that freely share their knowledge here! It's an amazing resource, and I appreciate you all.
Here's my situation:
I'm a straight male (late 20's), and I currently have two female
two weeks ago yesterday (15 days ago). Exactly one week after this encounter, I began to have an extremely noticeable itch inside my urethra. The itch was located in the middle of my penis
About two days later, I began to have a clear and sometimes milky white discharge. The discharge I could probably describe as light, although there was noticeable staining in my underwear. I suspected chlamydia, contacted the second sex partner to inquire about her sexual history, and it has been about a year since she's been tested.
Due to scheduling issues, I wasn't able to get seen by anyone for testing until the day before yesterday. The doctor examined me after providing a urine sample, so there was no visible discharge during the exam and everything looked normal. Based on having multiple sex partners over the past 60 days, he decided to treat me for 10 days, 100mg (twice daily) of Doxycycline thinking that is was probably not gonorrhea, and the Doxy would be effective in treating chlamydia if the test results came back positive.
I receive a call today with the test results, and the results for gonorrhea and chlamydia were negative. The nurse I spoke also said I tested negative for "trich," but I was not aware that they were testing me for that as I seem to have read that testing is uncommon in men.
They suggested I finish the Doxy, and go see a urologist if my symptoms don't improve (As of today, I still have mild discharge, but the itching has improved). Based on my research here, it sounds like NGU is likely culprit.
Knowing all of the above, I'm assuming the second partner needs to be tested/treated before we engage in sex again? Of course, she will likely test negative for chlamydia and gonorrhea as well, which means she will likely not be prescribed an antibiotic. I don't anticipate having sex with my primary sexual partner any longer as that relationship is changing substantially (the primary sex partner and I have been completely monogamous since we were both last tested notwithstanding this current encounter, and I'm confident she doesn't have any other sex partners). With that being said, four days after the unprotected encounter with the second sex partner, I had unprotected vaginal intercourse with the primary sex partner (three days prior to showing symptoms, but still unwise). Is this a health concern to the primary sex partner? I don't mind sharing this with her as we're pretty open with each other and get along well, but again, she will not test positive for chlamydia or gonorrhea either and will therefore, probably not be prescribed any medication.
I would also suspect NGU and with NGU you will find a lot of bad info and only a small amount of good info doing research. NGU is often caused by normal bacteria that just happens to infect the uretha. The Dr's on this site said it is not harmful in anyway, but more of an annoyance. So typically nothing is treated in woman because it is common bacteria.