I have been in a realationship with my bf for 4 years and have been faithful 100%. Last month I kicked him out of the house as he was sending sexy emails to my friends trying to meet up with her for sex
. She told me and although nothing physically happened I gave him a second chance. We have a 8 month baby together. Today I was at the Doctors who told me I have a possible Chlamydia infection and have to be tested in the morning. My head
is in overdrive! I am afraid he has cheated (even though he swore blind he never slept or kissed anyone) and given me something. Or is it possible that I have had this before I met him? I keep reading some ppl saying "it can be silent and not show symptoms for a couple of years" and some ppl saying "symptoms appear 2-3 months after infection. Please give me some advice, I NEED to know if he has cheated!!
You would not have chlamydia for 4 years and not know it. If he did cheat then it would probably have been in the past 1-2 years. If you do test positive I would suggest doing a 2nd test just to confirm because although false positives are rare they do happen. If you get 2 positive tests then ask your bf to test.
These test results are the only thing to tell you if he possibly cheated or not. And at this point I would not jump to conclusions.