need an answer

thanks for the reply kdaily. but this is the whole story.
In august 2008 my wife had an abortion. but before the abortion i told her i need some space to think. thats whether we are financially sound. so the best alternative was abortion. we had sex 5days after. but all these while we were not together which means she can sleep withsomeone. but we had couple of sex  after that but i worn a condom all the time.
then in october she was tested +ve for bacterial vagnosis, clamydia (chlamydia) and another std. she never told me about it she said the doctors said she lack iron and potassium.
we married in january then just recently found it in her closet.
now im tested -ve . she said it was the sex we had when she had the abortion. if so then i have it but i dont. otheerwisae she will be reinfected right,. but she aint neither. plssss help

[kdaily]

Abba, please keep your follow up questions in one post... I am going to paste this into your first post and respond there =)