New Anxious Father Wierd Symptoms

[thanksinadvance333]

We have newborns in the NICU and the last thing I want to do is get them ill.  I have stayed away throughout the week not able to differentiate my allergy symptoms from a cold or flu.  I have seen two doctors and they have not been able to find anything that indicates a virus thus far.  I have had a fluctuating body temperature from mid 97 range to mid 99 range.  When I am at the medical offices I have had a normal temp.  My head feels a bit fuzzy, minor head discomfort, normal breathing, slightly tired, clear mucous, full appetite, congestion, no coughs or sneezing to note.  I have been taking Allegra since Tuesday and using Astepro.  Symptoms started last Sunday/Monday.  Should I see another doctor, ride out the possible cold/flu, or just dive into the NICU like my wife and family want me to.  Please help!

[bigsissie]

If no viruses have been found so far I would say it is allergies. You can always be cautious and wear a mask and gloves and not pick the babies up. Your family probably needs your support and that is why they want you there. You can even go and just tell them until you know why you are sick you do not want to be around the babies. Even asking your pediatrician about your symptoms and explaining your fears may help since they know what is best for your babies. I hope you are better soon and your children are home and safe as soon as possible. Good luck and God bless.

Sissie

[matey1982]

absolutly not you keep clear of the newborns until you find out whats goin on with you. newborn babies havent always the greatest immune systems as they have never been exposed to anything. when you do see a dr about yourself ask them is it ok to be round these babies