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It is my understanding that having surgery is a temporary fix for this situation. My doctor had the same discussion with me when I was first diagnosed. Apparently, if you have a bowel resectioning, it is only a matter of time before the disease comes back. People who have the surgery have an 80-85% chance of needing it again in their lifetime at least once.
Therefore, I understand why your doctor told you that you are too young to get it done right now. You are also awfully young to have to live with an ostomy bag for the rest of your life if it is all by choice and not by necessity. But only YOU know how miserable you are with your current disease, so I'm just offering you some information but not trying to force advice on you.
Both my gastroenterologist and gastro surgeon said I had no option but to have the surgery, and as they are the experts, I had to agree. I would be guided by your gastro and surgeon before agreeing to major surgery. It is true that Crohn's cannot be cured, and I always knew it would come back, just not quite so soon! My Dr's were amazed at the severe ulceration in July - I put it down to having to stop the methotrexate last Dec prior to surgery, so until July I had no immuno-suppressants. When I pressed my drs as to the reason, they said that after 9 yrs on methotrexate, my risk of lymphoma was exceptionally high, particularly as I have had breast cancer, which had spread to the lymph nodes in my armpit, and my father died of colon cancer. I am still on weekly mtx, and infusions of Remicade every 8 weeks as a day patient in hospital. My gastro wants to wean me off mtx, but we need to do it slowly.
Best advice is to be guided by your doctors, and if you don't trust them, find one you do.
Wishing you the best,
Liz.