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I would say it took me a few months to feel completely back to normal, where I didn't have to force myself to slow down when I was walking, where I wasn't feeling that pinch or pain in my stomach when I bent down or walked too fast or sat down too fast (ouch! I learned that one real fast!) But the alternative is great. Before my surgery I was having stomach pains because the mass was constricting things. I now feel great! :)
Just remember to give this some time. It won't be easy for him to take it easy for a few months but he needs to so that he doesn't end up back in the hospital. That happened to a friend of mine who had a resection and she tried to do too much and didn't give herself enough time to recover and wound up back in the hospital. So you might want to warn him that it's better to take a few months to be completely back to normal than do too much, end up in the hospital and then back track and have to go through recovery again. I kept reminding myself of that when I'd get impatient with how slowly I felt I was recovering.
Another thing to consider is to get a hospital bed that first week or so that he's home from the hospital. We did that because that first day home I couldn't sleep because I couldn't lay flat or get comfortable. I finally slept in the recliner the first night and my husband rented a hospital bed after that. It's just that first week or two after surgery that it's hard to get in and out of bed. After that, he should be fine. You don't realize how much you use your stomach muscles until they've been cut into! :)
I was also fortunate in that our church brought meals over the first two weeks. I did not feel like eating much, much less cooking but knew my family needed to eat.
I hope any of this helps. I wish him a speedy recovery! God bless.