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[moni12345]

I slept  with one guy around mid November 2 times with no condom. My period is usually November 22nd. Then I was with someone else on Dec 12 and with that guy it was a lot of unprotected sex... Ive done a conception date calculator thing and it told me my conception date was from Dec 12-17. My baby looks a lot like the 2nd man, very identical! But I'm not sure because of these dates .. Can someone please give me an answer to what they think? 1st guy or 2nd

[AnnieBrooke]

If you think this is going to worry you forever, you could get a DNA test done now -- the odds against the first guy are very strong but you could do a drugstore test with him just to rule him out if you can't put your fears to rest any other way.

[moni12345]

Thank you

[AnnieBrooke]

If you had sex with the first guy and then got your period, which it sounds like you're saying was the order in which it happened, you did not get pregnant by the first guy.  People don't ovulate right before their period, and even if you had sex on November 20, it would be too early to produce a baby with the due date of September 8.

[moni12345]

by the dates I meant it as in I'm not too sure about the dad because I was with them sort of close together & sorry I didn't mean November 2nd I meant I was with him 2 times and it was around Nov 15-20, I did get my period in November, but not December

[AnnieBrooke]

You're "not sure because of those dates," what does that mean, that you are worried that you got pregnant with the guy as far back as November 2?  If you had, it would have given you a due date of July 26, not September 8.  Besides, you had a period after the guy (or at least, I think that is what you meant by "My period is usually November 22.")  Anyway, the guy November 2 is quite a long ways ahead of December 12, or even December 8 if you subtract four days because the baby was four days ahead of her due date.  If your only choices are the guy November 2 and the guy December 12, the dad is the guy December 12.

[moni12345]

Yeah sorry September of last year, my due date was sept 8 and I had her sept 4  

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, are you talking about a baby that was born in August or September of last year?  If so, was the baby on time?  When was his or her due date and when was he or she born?