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2 possible dads.

I have posted on here before, but I was not able to get an appointment at my obgyn office soon enough. Here's my story though,
My lmp was October 15-19th. I put in my last 6 period start dates and got an average of a 28 day cycle. By putting in my due date by my last period which is July 22, I ovulated on October 29 (I know this is not 100%) I had intercourse with an ex on October 24th late at night so well just say it was basically October 25 early morning, he pulled out ( I know it isnt 100%) but then me and my boyfriend got back together and had intercourse together October 27th, 28th and 29th where he did ejaculate inside of me ( as we have been trying for a baby for the past 6 months) I know I made a stupid choice and trust me I kick myself in the *** for it everyday. He knows about the incident and so far has stuck with me but he said of the baby isn't his he doesn't know if he can continue the relationship. I had an ultrasound done at my family doctor somewhere around 8 weeks because of bleeding, but she just checked the heartbeat printed me a picture and was done. I have an appointment for an ultrasound at my obgyn Jan 21st I'll be 14 weeks, if I showed them the ultrasound from my family doctor could the professional ultrasound person be able to measure it or am I basically SOL til the baby is here? And do you think it's more possible for my boyfriend to be the father..
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134578 tn?1693250592
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It all depends on how reliable your due date is.  That's why it is so important to get the answer from the earliest ultrasound you had.
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Alright thank you. And yeah she wasn't an obgyn she was just my family doctor. But do you think my boyfriend has the better chance of being the father?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Ask at your first doctor to have the films from the prior ultrasound sent to the second doctor.  (Is he or she an ob-gyn and the first doctor was not?)  If they are available, have them transferred over to the ob-gyn's before your appointment.  Then ask your ob-gyn if there is any indication on the films or the report of anything that would indicate how far along you were and/or when your estimated due date is by the measurements of the embryo.  it will all depend on how good of an ultrasound you had, I think.  Don't hesitate to explain your situation to the doctor, they have heard it all before.

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