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The beginning of June I cheated on my husband to be vengeful it was the night of June 5th and the day of June 6th. I got my period June 23rd a normal cycle. Took a pregnancy test July 23rd and I was pregnant. I only slept with my husband in July. Started getting morning sickness around week 7 and had to go to the RR where they said I had hyperemesis. I actually thought I was 8 weeks at the time but was really a few days behind making me 7 weeks and three days. This was sound the week of August 10th. My husband is constantly saying this isn't his child, antagonizing me consistently which had made my pregnancy completely stressful. I am high risk and stay in and out of the hospital. Baby from my last period is due March 30th but ultrasound april 5th. This is his child and I can understand why he feels that way but at the same time I wouldn't be dishonest. I just need some clarity. Can anyone help me out?
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Yes, this is your husband's child.  You would have conceived in July.  Too bad because the relationship issues sound very serious.  You cheated to be vengeful, he is willing to be emotionally antagonistic to a pregnant woman, there is a lot of anger in the relationship, etcetera.  I would say that besides being in the hospital, you two need to be in counseling, separately and together, to decide what to do about your marriage and how to retain some kind of at least a civil relationship for the sake of being parents together even if you decide not to stay married.  I'm sorry it's this way, your goal needs to be to get to a place where the anger does not poison the child's world.
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Wow! I appreciate it! You just read my life! I start counseling in a few days and he isn't interested but I am fixing myself for the sake of my children! Especially because this is our third! I appreciate it!
I have heard it said that when one person in the relationship changes the way he or she interacts, the other one can't help but also change, even if he won't go to counseling.  At least I hope you can get to the place where you aren't role-modeling anger and hostility in front of the kids.  They pick this stuff up and get anxious and fearful and also it imprints so their own relationships later in life model what they saw in their parents' relationship.  Good luck, I'm glad you're going to be in counseling.  If you don't feel like you are getting anywhere useful with one, feel free to ask for a referral to someone else.  Sometimes you have to try more than once to get a good counselor.
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