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Baby daddy issue
So I wasn't going to post this because it is very personal but the closer I get to my due date the more scared I get. So about 4 weeks before my supposed conception date I had sex with a different man. We used protection and I had no concern of being pregnant because I got my period about 2 weeks later. So about 2 weeks after the first day of my last period I did get pregnant and it made sense considering that I was ovulating during that time. I just want to make sure that I have the right father. It would be very embarrassing to have the wrong man this whole time.. I am pretty sure that I have the right father and every time I go to appointments they say that my son is right down the middle with everything and very healthy for how far along I am. I just want to make sure I've got this all correct. Do you ladies think that I could have gotten pregnant before and then gotten my period or is my current due date correct? Any reassurance or answers would be appreciated.
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Iris, it sounds like all your dates add up, you're suffering from a guilty conscience, not from any internal knowledge that you somehow got pregnant by the wrong guy. Please know that we often do get women here on the DNA/Paternity forum who slept with someone, then had a period in between, and the time elapsed was far too long for the first guy to be the dad, and they are STILL nervous and anxious. It is about having done the deed with the wrong guy, not because the baby is from that time. Try not to stress, but if you can't stop worrying, talk to a counselor. And make the baby's dad the happiest daddy in the world. That's how to atone for the mistake.
What RhomanMom say is true cause my ultrasound pic looks just like him to his chin lips and eyes and people it can't be seen
I had the same problem i counted back to the day i had sex with him and until now it all add up at first i thought it was the person that triggered my period but my docror says it was in july i was conceive and shockingly it was true but he still wants a DNA
Some us pics look wierd honestly. I was lucky to get a clear and focused one. And I mean there is no judgement here .ad an adult we all make decisions. .no need to feel bad about it. Don't let it stress you...it sure that your calculations are right
I was hoping that at my last ultrasound I would be able to see his nose and lips but I think he moved while she took the profile because it looks very odd to me.
No I had sex with him about 3 or 4 weeks after the first day of my second to last period (hope that makes sense). I just have been having this crazy anxiety about it because I have never done anything like that before.
Don't worry. Conception dates are tricky but using ovulation to track whem you should have gotten pregnant should help. On a personal note I used to be scare d that someone else was the father of my. Hild..I use to calculate and stare at calenders and calculators for hours .Then I got my 23 week ultrasound and as silly as it seems. The profile of my child looks just like her father..nose..lips and all. Wish I could upload a picture but no worries momma
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