Thank you so much Annie, I finally wrote her letting her know I saw the results of her U/S, now I believe the issue is settled and she is happy it is her boyfriends.
No, there is no law that gets you out of taking a DNA test, and it is hard to see how you would be a tool to get back at her boyfriend in any case. In fact, if requested to take a test, you would be crazy to refuse one, not to mention ungentlemanly. She was kind enough to have sex with you with no demands and no commitment (a social situation your great-grandfather would be very envious to hear exists in the world today), and the very least you can do in return is go get a test in the unlikely event she asks for a test. That's the price men pay for getting free sex in this day and age -- occasionally they need to take a test. For the sake of the lady, who does not sound like she is trying to blackmail you (or even contact you), don't be a jerk if a test request comes in. I don't think it sounds like she will ask you to test, but if she does, go, and look everyone right in the eye and for heaven's sake stop acting like you are terrified or have a guilty secret. In the meantime -- let it go, stop brooding, stop coming up with fanciful scenarios and demands for the legal system to save you. This is just one of those things that sometimes happens to men who have sex. Think how much tougher it is for the woman, who is essentially holding the bag.
In short, if she is no longer contacting you about it, it sounds like the issue is settled in her mind. There is no law against her having told you back before she had more information from the ultrasound that there was a possibility you were the father, it was what she knew then. But now she hasn't contacted you for a month and a half, it seems like paternity is clear to her, and if you didn't expect her to contact you if the other guy is the dad, you should stop with the "what ifs." She is not harassing you or asking you for anything, there is no law against her leaving you alone.
As I said, a scan is not going to be 4 1/2 weeks off even by the end of pregnancy, much less earlier. What kind of law are you talking about when you say "prevents me from being scammed if that were an issue"? By "being scammed," are you envisualizing a scenario that the baby is yours and you would not be told, or that the baby is not yours and you would be told it was for child support purposes? (The latter is easy enough to take care of with a DNA test.)
As I said already, she probably did think she was pregnant by you (or could be), back before the ultrasound. And while you would have hoped she would let you know immediately about the ultrasound results, possibly she didn't think you would be this worried. If you are friendly with her in general, write her a note (not on social media, a real note with paper and pen that you mail) saying "I saw on your post that the scan shows your boyfriend is the dad. Congratulations to you both." Then for heaven's sake, stop obsessing.
Thank you, I really appreciate your insight on my situation. It has helped me out a lot reading your post, I have one more question for you because I don't think I included these details the due date is Sep. 30th 2016.
The U/S on 02/25/2016 stated she was 9w 0d GA
What were her possible conception dates???
No. A scan is not 4 1/2 weeks off even by the end of pregnancy.
She probably did think she was pregnant by you (or could be), back before the ultrasound. It would have been kind of her to let you know immediately about the ultrasound results, but perhaps she didn't think you were so worried, or maybe she just is embarrassed that she gave you a false alarm and doesn't quite know what to say. You should make paper copies of all her posts (take screen shots) for your own protection against later false claims, and then if you are friendly with her in general, write her a note (not on social media) saying "I saw on your post that the scan shows your boyfriend is the dad. Congratulations to you both." That way you won't have to wait for her to write to you, she'll be able to handle her embarrassment, and it will be clear you can't be scammed either (if that would ever be an issue).