Considering Adoption Conception date? Freaking out

[leahbby]

I'm so scared even typing this. My last period was August 24,2015 or August 23,2015 I'm certain it was either on of those dates. My periods are regular. My periods are always 3 days and one extra day for spotting. They are always 30 days. My last four periods was April 24,May 24,June 23,July 24.Me and my husband decided to try for a baby. August 28, 2015 I was at a party a boy I use to talk to said I was a big "tease" long story short, he rubbed his penis up and down my vagina even around the opening. He never penetrated at all.It lasted for a min I don't think he ejaulated maybe pre ***. I never told my husband because I was scared and didn't think it was rape because he never penetrated me, we never had sex. September 6, 7, 8, 11 me and my husband had sex which he actually ejaculated inside me every time. According to my ovulation app my fertile days were Sept 5 until the 10. I took a ovulation test Sept 9 it was positive, the next 3 days I took it Sept 10, 11, 12. The test was all negative.  I then took a pregnancy test on Sept 14, and took a ovulation test too they both were negative. Sept 15 i had thick creamy cervical mucus. Sept 16, 17, 18 i had left pelvic pain. Sept 21 i went to the ER hospital i had a postive pregancy test. I had a  Transvaginal ultrasound. They couldn't find a  gestational sac or any sign I was pregnant. I just had a thick uterus. They sent me home. Sept 30 I came back to the ER for pain. They found a Sac no heartbeat, it measured at 5 weeks 6 days. The thing is it should have measured 5 weeks and 3 days. To days later I went back to another Er Oct. 2 they measured my Sac 5 weeks and 2 days. The baby Had a heartbeat they measured the CRL at 6 weeks 1 days low heartbeat. That would give me a DUE of 5/26/16. Went to the doctors office got a official ultrasound "dating" measure 9 weeks, with a due date of 5/27/16 then a month later had another ultrasound same due date 5/27/16. Never thought it wasn't my husband baby until the man that rubbed his penis on my vagina said I was pregnant by him when I announce it on Facebook. My husband confronted him, he said it was a joke and we never had sex. Since then its been stuck in my head. I talked to my Ob she said it was highly highly unlikely and said a 3 day, 2 day difference is normal on the ultrasound error. she gave me a due date on 5/30/16 with conception date Sept. 7. I had lots of cervical mucus with my husband. I didn't have none when the incident happened. I'm so scared. Could a Ovulation test be wrong? I have read so much stuff on the internet I'm so scared. Who could be the father? I would be so devastated if I got pregnant without sex. So depressed.

[leahbby]

Thank you very much!

[AnnieBrooke]

Glad to hear everything came out the way everyone thought it would.  Not useful to read too much on the Internet and scare yourself.  Take care and congratulations!

[leahbby]

My husband was the father. Ultrasound was off by 4 days so it is possible for an early ultrasound to be off! I did get it at the ER ultrasound though

[leahbby]

Thanks for being such a help. I do have OCD/anxiety.

[AnnieBrooke]

As I said, your anxieties are driving the bus.  Everything you describe leads to the conclusion that the incident on the 28th did not get you pregnant.  Please see a therapist about your anxiety if you cannot even consider a baby shower.  He or she will help you see that you can still focus on the joys of having a baby.

[leahbby]

Can't*remember I* sorry for the quick typing

[leahbby]

I did take a ovulation test on sept 9 it was positive then the next day negative. But I read they could give false positives if took in the morning. I came remember I think I took it around 9. I even called the ovulation test company they said they actually prefer for you to use first morning pee. Having cervical mucus, positive ovulation test, unprotected sex full ejaculation 4 days in a roll. Even the pregnancy app line up with everything. The only thing that's off is the ultrasounds that's 3-2 days off.. Smh

[leahbby]

I just don't understand why my ultrasound was 3 to 2 days off. Smh its sad because its been killing me my whole pregnancy. I don't want to have a baby shower, I keep having dreams its his. I keep thinking its going to come out looking like him. My first ultrasound would give me a EDD of 05/26/16 I put that into a calculator, ovulation would have been Sept 3. That's exactly 7 days after the inciden . I have read sperm can live for 7 days. Also that would be before me and my husband even had sex, which was sept 6. But then again that ovulation date is based off a 28 cycle, I have a 30 to 31 I always have. Sorry to be a bother. I just saw you help so many other peopl . Its eating me alive.

[AnnieBrooke]

It is true that nothing with the human body is "guaranteed," but to be considering adoption over this is, frankly, wrong.  It sounds like your anxieties are driving the bus.  What you described gives a super low likelihood of pregnancy.  

[AnnieBrooke]

gives a super low likelihood of pregnancy *from the event on August 28* is what the above sentence means.

[leahbby]

She told me its highly highly unlikely but still said she couldn't be 100%. I read so much stuff on the internet I don't know what to believe.

[AnnieBrooke]

That guy is messing with your head the way he messed with your body.  Trust your doctor.