DNA or Maury show

[joli_alicia]

Okay so when I found out I was pregnant  I was shocked & in a unhappy  relationship.

In the beginning,i was seing someone I knew for a while. It was no bf/gf relationship. I've known him for  a while & we would communicate here & there. We messed around on one occasion.

We wasn't serious so I continued to do me & became in a relationship with another guy shortly after. We  was intimate  & I started having pregnancy symptoms so we got tested & it came back possitive.

Since me & the guy I've known for yrs was open, he called one day & I vented to him . basically about the unhappy relationship with the new guy & how im expecting. He  listened and congratulated me.

Long story short when I did my first ultra sound I found out something so shocking!!! I been pregnant! I had to break the news to the bf at the time & say"i was already pregnant before we even got involved".

I received a call,  I told him "There's a high chance you are the father" he & I want a DNA TO PROVE. I made a mistake & opened up to him about the bf I was dating. I'm confident it's his & not my ex i dated for a short time. he is distant now & it's awkward because I'm going through this alone.

I'm almost 30 weeks!!!! The update I gave him was ultra sound around 24w & told him it's a girl. That's when he asked when he can do DNA test.
*ANY ADVICE?

[AnnieBrooke]

Honey, lots of girls who have not been sleeping with more than one guy also get asked for a DNA test by their boyfriend.  In this day and age, a guy would be kind of foolish not to, he is going to be committed to child support for 18 or 21 years, that is a big monthly check for all those many many, months.  Of course he wants to know.  Just talk to your doctor about how to get a DNA test that would stand up in court (don't use a drugstore test, they are too easily faked).  If you would like, call the family courts in your area, and ask the judge's clerk if there is a list of labs that are certified by the court for determining paternity.  Go to the lab with the guy and the baby, get swabbed, and that is that.

[joli_alicia]

Thanks ladies, I finally got the courage to make a post & figured I wasn't the only one going through a dna dilemma. Much love

[QueenKaykay]

You can get a DNA test done at the hospital after birth,  don't go on maury because EVERY ONE IN THE USA THAT WATCH MAURY WILL KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT happen

[Meganina]

I'm in a similar situation. The hospital will do DNA testing if requested. Don't go to maury. That's just putting your business out for everyone to judge

[denielle1224]

Give him,a DNA test. At least then you are both sure.

[Jessika20]

I would just get the DNA after she is born an go from there. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do now about it. I wish you the best of luck