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[MelissaR94]

I live in florida. and i am 9 weeks 4 days i found out i was pregnant a day before thanksgiving. I don't know anything about my cycle but i know that i have a normal period and in october and november i didn't have one. i had my last period on september 25th and it says that i conceived on the 9th of october and that i ovulated from the 6-9. i had sex before the 9th unprotected and my friend he did finish in me every single time. we had sex almost everyday before the 6 as well and 2 weeks before that he finished in me every single time. on the 9th early in the morning like around 1 or 2 i had sex unprotected but the guy didn't finish in me he used pull out. so could i have gotten pregnant from the second guy that i had sex with on the 9th or sex with my friend before that? what do you think. i told both of them about this and so they know but i want opinions. i didn't want to keep it from them so i felt i had the right to tell both that they could be. any suggestions? thank you.

date of last period: september 25th
ovulation october 6-9
conception date october 9th

my periods are always 6 days long as well almost 7 i have brown discharge on the 7th day of my period and then it ends that day.

[AnnieBrooke]

Neither guy is ruled out by any of that; Mr. Friend has the stronger chance to be the dad but you will def need the DNA test.

[MelissaR94]

does having brown discharge on the 24th count as my period starting because the day before i bled bled i had that brown discharge like i always did the with other periods before. but it was normal period like always. the  second guy also told me he is a frequent masterbater. he masterbates at least 6 times a day everyday. and also the doctor told him when he was younger he would have trouble having kids because he was hit my a skate board in his balls. \

[AnnieBrooke]

Here is how I counted it out.  If your doctor told you that you were exactly 7 weeks on November 12, that makes your (presumed) first day of your last period September 24.  From that, the conception calculator I use gives the following:

     First day of last menstrual period:  September 24
     Probable date of ovulation:  October 8
     Possible dates of conception:  October 4 to 12
     Due date:  July 1 (40 weeks)

If you prefer, you could do the count using your actual first day of your last period, though the 7-weeks figure your doctor gave you from the ultrasound was based on seeing the actual embryo.  That would be:

     First day of last menstrual period:  September 25
     Probable date of ovulation:  October 9
     Possible dates of conception:  October 5 to 13
     Due date:  July 2 (40 weeks)

I don't know why your doctor told you a range of the 6th through the 8th, you would have to ask him or her.  

As far as the other guy saying it takes hours and days for the egg to fertilize, please remind me not to go to him for medical advice.  It is true that a sperm can live for several days in the woman's reproductive tract, waiting around for an egg to come down.  But if there is an egg available the day the sperm is ejaculated, conception can happen the moment the sperm comes out and swims up into the uterus.

[MelissaR94]

yea i already told both of them. but the other guy says it takes hours and days for the egg to fertilize the egg so both of them are just like whatever about it. but at least i told them that they both could possibly be. how come my doctor told me i ovulated from the 6-8 then? in september i had a full period like i do every month. its always 6 days and i never ever had an irregular period.

[AnnieBrooke]

Having had a yeast infection really is kind of immaterial to whether that guy got you pregnant; the meds for it would not affect conception or anything like that.  If you're mentioning it because it means something about timing, why not just use dates?  It would be easier to understand.

According to the conception calculator I use, the strongest likelihood is that you ovulated around the 8th.  This would suggest the first guy, unless you were not having sex with him at that time or within five days earlier.  If you were having a lot of unprotected sex with him around then, and given the date, and given that the other guy pulled out, the best chance is that the first guy is the dad.  Of course, pulling out is not guaranteed as birth control, and dates this close together mean you really have to have a DNA test when the baby is born.  But at least let Mr. Friend know he has the strongest chance, so he can be emotionally ready.

[MelissaR94]

No i WAS having sex with my friend from the 1-8 the first guy unprotected but i had a yeast infection as well i know that sounds bad but my friend still wanted to have sex because i was on the medicine i never had a yeast infection before in my life and my doctor told me when i had that yeast infection its because i was having the unprotected sex with my friend. he didn't have anything because i was the only girl he was having sex and i know that because i was with him all day everyday for a couple months. we were kinda together lol. if that makes sense.

[AnnieBrooke]

Sorry, but are  you saying that you didn't have sex with anyone from the 1st to the 8th?

[MelissaR94]

and before the 8th i had a yeast infection i was taking medicine before that because my friend and i were having unprotected sex since september and he was finishing in me every time for 2 months. i got a yeast infection a week after my period. right after my period we had sex unprotected and he finished in me. the second guy was the only guy i had sex with around the 9th but he pulled out.

[AnnieBrooke]

I think it sounds more likely to be the friend.  My calculator says you ovulated on October 8, which would just barely rule the other guy (who pulled out) out of the race.  Thing is, though, when the dates are so terrifically close together, you really will not know for sure until you have a DNA test.  

[MelissaR94]

yes i have had an ultrasound on tuesday november 12th i was exactly 7 weeks.

[Mommy2Kayden]

It could be either. Most likely the guy who didn't pull out but I'm just as far along as you and I ovulate late so we conceived on the 15th. A DNA test is the only way to know for sure.

[AnnieBrooke]

Have you had an ultrasound?  Just using an app is not going to be precise enough; you need to have a doctor or ultrasonographer confirm the crown-to-rump length of the embryo in order to be sure of the estimated due date.

[MelissaR94]

i am due july 2nd