Embarrassed

[BabyAmo]

I am in a bit of a situation. I was dating a guy few months back after breaking up wt my x on april.. we  had sex on the 2nd and 3rd of july 2016 without protection, then we broke up. I had cramps mid july which wer painful for only 1day. On the 27 july i had my periods,my cycle lasts only 4days.. on the last day which was da 30th. I got back together with my old boyfriend and we had unprotected sex. Around the weekend of the 12 of august i slept wt him again. Two weeks later. I had serious cramps that lasted for quite few weeks and i discovered i was pregnant. Today i am 10 weeks 5days.. i am confused who the father is..

[Kila_Gram]

Don't just go off of people's calculations, they aren't always accurate. Everyone's body is different I have heard of women bleeding during their whole pregnancy. I have heard of women had bleeding from a very early miscarriage only to get pregnant right after. To be 100 percent get a DNA test when baby is born. It would be a good thing to let both of the possible fathers know. They deserve to know. Think of if you have a son, you wouldn't want him to get attached to a baby or get caught up in a pregnancy that he could get hurt down the line. Sadly a lot of us do that when we don't know for sure. And don't feel too ashamed to. You have no reason to be ashamed, you aren't married or tied down. Only feel ashamed if you don't find out who your child's father is, for their future sake. Either way I hope it's the one who will be the best dad. You have already shown you care about your baby by trying to find out who the little guy or girl's dad is.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, how did you get the 10 weeks 5 days figure?  If it was from a doctor looking at an ultrasound, you can go with it.  If it was from you sitting at home looking at a calendar, you should probably get an ultrasound to confirm it.

[BabyAmo]

On the 3rd of september i went to a doc n he said i am 6 weeks and 2days but the scan was blurry i cud hardly c wat she was talking about. On the 17th september i went to a dofferent doc n he confirmes dat i am 6 weeks full n there was a smaller dot that was very clear.

[AnnieBrooke]

Did either doctor give you an estimated due date from your scan?

[kiananickey70]

If that was breakthrough bleeding then your pregnancy will then be calculated from the period BEFORE because break through bleeding in no way shape or form is an actual period that is something to talk to your OB about but your welcome (:

[kiananickey70]

I would think it would be the last guy you slept with . If your period was really a period and not breakthrough bleeding . Then it's definitely the last guy

[BabyAmo]

Kiananickey thank u for reaponding. Do u think i will still be 10 weeks 5 days if maybe the period was a breakthrough bleeding?