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Hi.I had unprotected sex October 29th 2016.Though we had unprotected sex he pulled out. Though he pulled out he wiped it off but went back in about 4-5 minutes later and his penis was leaking still. I was told the pull out method only works the first time and though a man wipes it off you can still get pregnant because its sperm still in his urethra.He didnt finish the second time but its still possible that when he went back in the sperm could have squeezed out and swam to my egg. On Halloween night very late right before midnight (31st) I got really really drunk and decided to leave a Halloween party early so I went home and this guy that has been crushing on me was at the door we ended up having sex and I stopped him about 5 minutes later because I didnt feel right. November 8th I got a fainted line and I just brushed it off. November 12th I started throwing up so I took a clear blue and it said pregnant.So I told the first guy because I had no doubt it was his. The other guy heard me telling someone else and asked me was I sure it wasn't his. I told him I was positive because I made him stop and asked him if he came. He told me he didnt. About 3weeks ago he contacted me on fb and said he did and sorry he lied. Now I am a week away from being 8months and so confused.My cycle lengths are 28 days apart first day of last period October 15th. ovulation calculators says my ovulation date is October 29th and 5days prior to that. Me and the first guy had sex on that very day. Me and the second guy 48hours Later but technically a couple hours over.Some sites says a egg lasts 12-24hours and others say it can last up to 48. Please help I really think its guy number 1 but I dont knowknow now. Please help.
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Sweetheart, it could very well be the first guy, from all the figuring you have done (none of which is illogical).  But when the sex was only two days apart and both events were right around the time you ovulated, you will need a DNA test to sort it out.  Since you are at 8 months now, it would be more practical for you to take a test after the baby comes -- you could do a prenatal test now but the cost is about a tenth as much once the baby is born.

Did you happen to have an ultrasound in your 6th or 7th week that gave you a due date from the measurements of the baby?  If so, can you put your hands on it and say when the estimated due date (EDD) was?  It might not clarify things but if you did have one we might as well check.
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I called the place I got my first ultrasound about a week ago. I believe they said I was 6weeks and 4 days on the first or second of December I dont remember if they gave me a due date and if they did I dont know if they were measuring it based off the size of the fetas or based off of my last menstrual cycle. My due date is now July 22nd but I will call the place tomorrow and see for sure and get back with you. I'm almost positive its the first guy but you never know. I will get back with you tomorrow and thank you.
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Okay so my first ultrasound was December 1st I was 6weeks and 3days and my EDD was july 24,2017
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My EDD didnt come from the mesurment of the fetus they went off of what I told them after I had already been somewhere to get proof of pregnancy where they gave me a pregnancy test and the lady estimated it herself with one of those little circle chart things. The place I got my first ultrasound was also at a place like that but they did pregnancy tests and ultrasounds up until 12weeks until you are able to see a doctor so thats where I went until I was 10 weeks. My doctor then gave me the due date of July 22,2017
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Well, as I said before, it certainly could be the first guy, but since the sex was so close together, you will need a DNA test to be sure.  Not long to wait now.
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Thank you
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