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[brittprw]

So my daughter is almost a year old and my ex boyfriend is just now asking questions. Here is the situation: Me and my ex broke up in august around the 20-25th 2013, im not sure the last day we had sex. Me and my now boyfriend started sleeping together shortly after in the beginning of September. When i found out i was prego on october 8th i assumed it was my current boyfriends.. but is it possible it is not? they determined my due date by me telling them my last period was sep. 1st which was not accurate. I have a very abnormal period so i honestly could not remeber when the last period was. I was due june 11th then they changed it to june 8th. i had her on may 30th and the drs were surprised that i had her so quickly beings that i was early and it was my first child. so can that mean my due date was actually sooner? is there a way my ex is the dad?? they are both great guys, i just want to be fair but no matter what someone gets hurt, Any help is appreciated. no rude comments please. i can post baby pics of all of them if that is helpful.

[AnnieBrooke]

Only if you had had an ultrasound in something like your 7th week, and from that measurement of the embryo were given an estimated due date back then, can you try to make a guess now that would have enough validity to rule out your ex as too early.  Your option is the DNA-test route, which would clear things up nicely.  I'd do it.

[brittprw]

But I know the sex with my ex was not past the 23rd

[brittprw]

Well I've been looking back on Facebook and I know me and my ex were broken up by aug 23. But idk how soon to that we had sex. Me and my current didn't sleep together till atleast the end of the first week of September. Like I said I had her may 30th which would make it seem like it's my currents. But I had her so quickly for me to only be "38 weeks" makes me wonder if I was really 40 or more weeks.. That would mean it's very possible for her to be my exes. Ugh this is insane. I don't know what possible.

[AnnieBrooke]

If you think the sex with the ex was as late as perhaps the 30th or so, it might be worth a DNA test.  If you do the drugstore kind of test, send swabs from *both* guys, be there when they swab, seal the whole thing up right there and mail it yourself.  If the answer comes out a surprise, you'll need to go the certified-lab route to get a more official test -- you can call the family courts for information on how to find a lab certified by the courts to test for paternity.

The problem you have is that you don't know for sure how accurate your initial due date was, or how close to term the baby was born.  So only a DNA test will confirm the dad.