Help! Whos the father???

[Jeanette9120]

Hi. My last period was 3/20 but my cycles are out of place sometime 31 sometimes more from february - march my cycle was 44 days I had sex with one guy on the 31 of march he used protection we checkd if it ripped and everything was good then i had sex with my boyfriend in april in between he didnt use a condon and he didnt pull out on may 2 I had spotting i did a pregnancy test on the 5 of may came out positive but when i went to the doctor to get checked he says i got pregnant on the 1 of april im really worried!! Im really hopin the baby is my boyfriend

[AnnieBrooke]

Can you look at the ultrasound report and see what it says, they probably didn't say the baby was 7 weeks 0 days but that the pregnancy was at 7 weeks 0 days, which does not mean the same thing.  Will you please say when the due date is that they gave you?  Not just January, but what actual day?

[Jazzmen4710]

@anniebrook can you also comment on my post. I'm freaking out

[Jeanette9120]

Well im not sure but this is stressing me out i got an ultrasound at the hospital on 5/15 and they said the baby was 7 weeks 0 days and due date is january and on the 22nd i got another ultrasound with my doctor and he said the baby was 8 weeks and 5 days so i dnt know because withthis messed up cycle i dnt know whats going on

[Jazzmen4710]

@mymy22 can you look at my post lmp vs gestional age and give me your input please and thank you.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, honey.  Do you really think the doctor was telling you a conception date?  Usually they count back to an assumed first day of last period, not to an assumed day of conception.

When you got your ultrasound, not according to the wheel but according to the ultrasound measurements of the baby, did they give you any kind of estimated due date or a GA?  Do you have a copy of the ultrasound report?  Does it say the term EDD or GA?

[Jeanette9120]

I did and they use the wheel and check and supposes i got pregnant on the 1st and he did an ultrasound and the baby is 9 weeks my son when he was 9 weeks he lookd really different this baby looks smaller

[mymy22]

Did the doctor do a ultrasound n it gave him the conception date of the first? You should tell your doctor about this problem so they can point you at a conception date

[Jeanette9120]

Because the doctor gave me a due date until dec 28 but when he says when i got pregnant it said on the 1st and could of only happend with a 31 day cycle im really stressing out but at the hospital they said im suppose to have the baby in jan.

[mymy22]

Then yes it's most likely to b your bf baby cause sperm only stay in the body for about 3-5 I have heard 7 at the most and I honestly think your bf is the baby father it point more at his sperm

[Jeanette9120]

And on may 2 i had spottn

[Jeanette9120]

Around those days i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend

[mymy22]

But you couldve ovulated earlier or later because your periods come on at different times of the month you know

[mymy22]

I have been looking on the internet and your fertile days was between April 15-20 and your due date should be Jan 10

[Jeanette9120]

My period lasted 7 days

[Jeanette9120]

Yes i got my period on 3/20 but the cycle was 44 days yes i did

[mymy22]

&& How many days did your period last for

[mymy22]

Hi your cycle was 44 days right have you been to the doctor yet?

[Jeanette9120]

Even tho my cycle was 44 days plus me and the guy are 100% sure that the condom didnt rip

[Jazzmen4710]

The dates from which you had sex with your bf and the date your doc said you got pregnant seems to far away

[Jazzmen4710]

Everything is leading to the guy that's not your bf.