Help please?

[StephanieLoving2014]

My due date is February 25 and I'm not quite sure if I got my LMP in May.. My boyfriend & I split up in the beginning of May and I made a mistake and slept with another guy. My period usually comes in the end of each month.. I really don't remember bleeding but I must of gotten my LMP in May because if I didn't, I think I would of taken a pregnancy test earlier. Its worrying me because I really hope it is my boyfriends. We had gotten back together and had sex everyday after the split up. I know for sure I missed my period in June because thats when my boyfriend and I had bought 3 pregnancy tests and they were all positive. I've done some researching and the internet keeps telling me that I conceived in early June. My daughters nose looks just like my boyfriends in the 3D ultultrasound pictures, I'm just still worried. Please help.

[inkedcutie]

Hi, so my due date is feb 24th. I had a period in may from the 9th-12th. I made a mistake and had sex with a friend on the 11th. I took the MAP immediatley.my cycles are pretty regular average is 26days. I then had sex with my bf on the 13,17,20th.. i had my first U/S and it was 13w2d. That was my 2nd dr visit. On my 3rd visit i got the DD of the 24th. It has never changed and everything is going accordingly. Ive been stressed to the max over it. I had another U/S and it dated me 28w6d and between that and how far along i was was about 4 days different..so if your due date is the 25th you most likely got pregnant the end of may or early june. So whoever you were with towards the end of the month if you had a period and ovulated would most likely be the father. See if you can figure out if you had a period in may

[StephanieLoving2014]

So its most likely my boyfriends?

[AnnieBrooke]

Only worry if you think something is wrong in the estimated due date that was given to you by the doctor.  And I don't just mean a few days wrong or a week wrong, but like a month wrong.  It doesn't seem like the doctor could be so far off.  Get a DNA test done when the baby is born to put the entire question to rest.

[StephanieLoving2014]

So I shouldn't even worry?

[AnnieBrooke]

Honey, I don't know if you had a period in May or not.  I just know that the doctor is correct when he dates conception to very late May or early June, if the e.d.d. is anywhere near to right.  Even a 17th week ultrasound will not be more than a couple of weeks off, and since yours are holding stable at the February 25 due date, it doesn't sound like there is that much margin for error.

[StephanieLoving2014]

I'm sorry, I'm just very nervous & confused right now. Yes, you are right. He knows that I was talking to that guy, he doesn't know I had slept with him. So most likely I had my LMP in May? Yes, I know for a fact it was either the first week or second "Mr. Wrong" & I had sex. After that, I stopped talking to him & made my relationship way better with my boyfriend. I'm now 34 weeks & 5 days.

[AnnieBrooke]

It would be easier to understand your story if you had lined it up a little more like a calendar without all the "right afterward" and "then we got back together," but here is what I think you're saying.  You broke up very briefly in early May, had sex with someone else, and then still in relatively early May got back together with your boyfriend.  Does he know you had sex with someone else, or is it a secret?

I don't think you got pregnant in early May at all, I think you got pregnant either very late in May or early in June, as your doctor said.  By then, unless the day of the breakup was not in early May, the sperm would have been long dead from the other guy and the baby will be your boyfriend's.

[StephanieLoving2014]

When I said, " My boyfriend & I got back together && had sex right after "Mr. Wrong" && I did" .. in a matter of DAYS my boyfriend & I had sex.

[StephanieLoving2014]

My mistake, I was 17 weeks when I had gotten my first ultrasound. I had went to a doctor before that & he just gave me a pap smear && my EDD was March 3. I didn't like that doctor so I went to another one & he gave me my first ultrasound && I was 17 weeks. The second doctor gave me the EDD of February 25 && ever sense then it HASN'T changed. My boyfriend & I split up for only a day (Beginning of May sometime) & that day I had sex with "Mr.Wrong" ONCE that was it. No, he was NEVER right.. it was a mistake that I really regret. My boyfriend & I got back together && had sex after "Mr. Wrong" & I did. I CAN'T remember if I had gotten my LMP in May, if I did.. then "Mr. Wrong" CAN'T be the father. Every females story that I've read online & that has the SAME EDD as mine HAD a period in May.. so does that mean that I DID have a period in May too? I think if I didn't, I would of taken a pregnancy test in the beginning of June or right away.. but I DIDN'T. My boyfriend & I waited for my period to come in LATE June (When my periods normally come) & NOTHING came.. so I knew for a FACT that I was pregnant after June. My boyfriend & I had sex after me && "Mr. Wrong" had sex && in the end of May && beginning of June I believe. We had sex a lot, I know that for a fact.

[AnnieBrooke]

Also, you said you and your boyfriend "split up in the beginning of May and I made a mistake and slept with another guy."  Was that (sleeping with Mr. Wrong) also right at the beginning of May?  (Because if so, I don't think you have much of anything to worry about.)  Then you said you and your boyfriend "had gotten back together and had sex everyday after the split up."  How long was the split-up?  A matter of a few days or a matter of weeks?  I assume you had no more sex with Mr. Wrong after the two of you got back together, so in trying to figure out what the timing is if it was at the end of May, it would help to know how long before that you got back together with your boyfriend.

[AnnieBrooke]

So, you had an ultrasound when you were "2 months," do you mean 8 weeks?  That is not too late.  Did they give you your due date of February 25 based on that ultrasound?

[StephanieLoving2014]

My doctor said I conceived around May 30-June 4 but he just guessed..  he didn't use no technology.

[StephanieLoving2014]

My due date has been kept at FEB 25 throughout my whole pregnancy & I had gotten my first ultultrasound late. I was already 2 months. The thing is, my daughters nose looks exactly like my boyfriends in the 3D ultrasound & everyone else that is due FEB 25, Had a period in May. So does that mean I did too?

[AnnieBrooke]

When was your earliest ultrasound, and how far along did they tell you that you were at that time?  Did they give you a due date?