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I'm new to this so sorry if I'm in the wrong area. I'm embarrassed to ask this but I was with another guy last October on the 30th, but he didn't finish. I had gotten my period November 4th full one normal. Then had sex with my now current boyfriend on november 17th(we had a
split up). Now I'm pregnant, I'm 99.9% sure my boyfriend is the father I'm 14 weeks and 2 days now . I just need to know if my boyfriend is the father or the other guy. Please help I'm ashamed to ask but I need an answer to put me at ease.
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sounds like your boyfriend is the father.
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What's the due date
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defintly your bfs....u had a fulll period
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If you go back 14 weeks it says the 4th
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I'm due august 12
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Yes a full period normal for me.
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Okay cool. When you put the due date in it says November 19th so your good to go
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Thank you guys very much you don't know how much this means to me. I had told my boyfriend what happened, since we had split for a lil but all together, we know 8 years is too much to toss away for a dumb stupid decision. I haven't talked to the other guy at all. Again I appreciate your helping me out that's one less thing to dwell on.
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Thank you breee08.
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:) congrats to you guys
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Here is from the conception calculator, if it will ease your mind further.

First day of last menstrual period:  November 4, 2012
Probable date of ovulation:  November 18, 2012
Possible dates of conception:  November 15 to November 23, 2012
Due date:  August 12, 2013 (40 weeks)

Remember when you're doing your doctor appointments that the starting point doctors use for counting gestational age (such as 14 weeks 2 days) is the first day of your period.   Day 1 of bleeding is day 1 of the pregnancy, to a doctor.   Being "14 weeks 2 days pregnant" doesn't mean you conceived 14 weeks 2 days ago, it means your first period began at that time and then you conceived a couple of weeks later, when you ovulated.  Pregnancy is counted this way because a period is a big, obvious signal, and ovulation is hidden and unknown.
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Thanks breee08. Anniebrooke thank you for that.
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