Helpppppp plz

[Karenlopez22]

I had sex sept 25. that's the only day I had sex with that person. Then oct 4 I was with my friend and was with till December. My due date is ranging from July 9 to the 15. I'm really worried and I'm hoping it's my friends. Can someone help me

[Karenlopez22]

You such a great help so it can't be the person I was with on the 25 right I was just worried since it was at the end of the month it's just so confusing you know and you seem to know a lot. Like I said I just want to be sure it's my friends or I should say bf now since we're working out so good

Thank you for taking the time to help
Me  it's extremely kind of you

[AnnieBrooke]

Enjoy it, sweetheart.  You're one of the lucky ones.

Annie

[Karenlopez22]

Thank you so much no it was the dates I was just so worried you know cuz I want it to be my friends cuz that other person was just a bad night I don't even talk to him any more so it's a scary thought you know and my and my friend well he's my ex were working things out and things have gotten so much better it's just a scary thought of omg I pray that baby comes out looking like the man I love you know but by you helping me out and stuff it just mad me feel better and I need to stop worrying and enjoy my pregnancy

[AnnieBrooke]

July 16 gives you a conception date of October 24, and July 9 gives you a conception date of October 17.  With an entire month between the sex you are worried about and the estimated conception date from your earliest ultrasound (which is the most accurate one for trying to determine a due date), there really isn't any theory that can be devised where the sex in September caused your pregnancy..

If you have asked "so many people" and they have all said you have nothing to worry about,and you are still asking people and devising stories in your mind that sex on September 25 produced a baby due in July, it's likely something else is worrying you, not really the dates when you come right down to it.  (Dates are easy to transfer anxiety onto when something not so easy to solve is really what is causing anxiety.)  You might ask at your clinic if they have a counselor on staff, to help you figure out what about the situation is existentially inconsistent or distressing for you, and begin to answer the issue directly instead of transferring your stress to your dates.  No answer about dates will remove the anxiety if it is not really about dates.

[Karenlopez22]

Thank you :) Iv been asking so many people i get worried cuz I'm like well if it was the 25 what if I could pregnant on the 4th or 5th from Sept 25 you know ? But I would have gotten pregnant by the 30 of sept right ? And the thing is two my due date keeps changing first it was July 16 then the 14 then 11 now it says the 9th

[AnnieBrooke]

The sex September 25 would produce a baby with a due date of June 18.  It doesn't sound like you have anything o to worry about.