Huge mistake need help

[Alli2011]

Hi everyone, I have a huge problem
I had unprotected sex October 22nd and the guy(1) came inside, told me he didn't. I went to my Primary care doctor October 29 and they did a pregnancy test and came out negative. My current BF(2)  has been my sexual partner since then which I was using birthcontrol but missed a couple days. Now November 28th I have a positive home test.

Please anyone smarter could give me an opinion telling me (1) could not be the dad!!  Cause I'm worried.

Thank you to anyone who wishes to comment and help
This is extremely painful  to go through

[Lele123456y]

I ment pregnant during February I or after  but thank you so much it feels good to get it out my head

[AnnieBrooke]

If you had gotten pregnant "before February," i.e., in January, the baby would be four weeks to eight weeks overdue by now.  If you got pregnant in February, the baby would be 1 to 4 weeks overdue by now.  Doctors don't let you go overdue.  Conception calculator says that for a due date of December 5 your conception date was March 14.

[AnnieBrooke]

After February.  Around March 14, from what you report.

[Lele123456y]

Hey I'm having the same problem can I please get some help I'm 39 weeks My due date is December 5th it's almost time but I'm been stressing my self out about who might be the father of my child they said my last period was February 28 and I start ovulation on March 14 can anyone tell me if I got pregnant before or after February please !

[DanielleM94]

Yes just do that  but don't stress yourself it could be the better outcome for you and you don't wanna hurt baby I'm sure when you so a sono you'll know which one was closer since its almost a month apart (:

[Alli2011]

Thanks again guys
I had the bleeding lighter than usual but still needed a pad for 4-5 days.
That's what gets me confuse
I guess I have to wait  for doctors to tell me how many weeks I actually I'm.

[DanielleM94]

Yes it just depends on when you get pregnant for it to come up that's why you have to wait a little to test . I was so confused also with when exactly I got pregnant because I bled but the doctor said it was Just implanting and that can cause women to bleed and then after I stopped I took another test and that's when it came back positive even though I hadn't had sex since before the negative test. I know it can be really confusing :(

[RockRose]

When was your last period that wasn't just one day and light?  

Even if you were pregnant when you went to the doc on Oct. 29,  it wouldn't have shown up.  That's too early.

[janaytracy]

It could be either one, with the first guy and first test your hcg levels probably wasn't high enough to show up on a test, even though a DNA test comes with a lot of drama it would be the best for the baby to know their biological father. The blleding was probably embryo (baby the first couple of weeks) implanting itself to your uterus. Good luck and congratulations on your baby.

[yesfer_]

Alli I don't think it was your period , I would call it implatation bleeding :o look it up . I thought the same " that it was my period " & because of that I decided to wait another month to see if "it was " my period & it wasn't . Look that up :)

[Alli2011]

Thank you for your opinions,
Even the test at the doctor's could be wrong ?
I think I had some sort of period that day too a light one

[maw4389]

Could be either guy. You could get a dna test.

[DanielleM94]

Hello, not to try and bring you down or anything just want to give you my honest opinion but though you took a test after guy 1 you could still have been pregnant and got a negative test. It happened to me when I got pregnant me and my boyfriend were trying and I would take test and they came back negative, eventually after taking more test days/weeks later it was positive. I was already pregnant when the test were coming back negative it just takes a while sometimes to show up positive. Just be honest with them. When you have your sono talk with your Dr about how far along you are and they'll give you a date around when you got pregnant and I'm sure the dates will match up with one or the other. You'll be okay, I can't imagine what your going thru. Don't be too hard on yourself, I've gone thru things in my pregnancy also, no one is perfect, you have someone to be strong for now best of luck to you!!

[jessicakellyn]

What's your estimated due date? It's probably boyfriend (2) but if it was the first guy who got you pregnant you wouldn't have known at that first appt in Oct probably. Good luck!

[DestinyH]

The second guy in my opinion is the father