Is A or B my baby's father ? Please help

[Ddc0109]

Ok so I had sex with guy A on the 27th August 16, I then had my period on 1st September 2016. I then went on to have sex with B for the rest of the September month & on the 4th October I had a positive pregnancy test of 2-3 weeks. My EDD is 08/06/17 I have got really obsessive over this and from the dates I believe B is the father? Today I am 24+5 days pregnant (including the 2 weeks added on) so take them off and count back I get the conception date of around the 15th September. I am so worried and obsessing because my and my partner have had issues ttc. However if it was A I would b showing further along plus I had a period in between the 2?! Please help

[Trini_Lover]

Guy B is the daddy

[Ddc0109]

I was given the 8th June and then they changed it to the 13th at a private scan (which would have been later) then back to the 8th June. I've had a period in between & my dates add up to B but I just need some reassurance??

[AnnieBrooke]

Unless your first ultrasound (that gave you the 8th of June) was really late in the pregnancy, you can rely on it to rule out the first guy.

[Ddc0109]

I had a specialist scan for baby's femur length on Monday when I was 24+4 days and he cofied the due date of 8th June ?

[Ddc0109]

Confirmed **

[AnnieBrooke]

September 15 sounds like the conception date, then.  Why are you worried?

[Ddc0109]

Ive done the dates calculations numerous times a day some days. and its near impossible for it to be A because I also had my period in between the two . I guess its only natural to worry ? I see a lot of people in similar positions on here and its nice that you can ask questions and gain reassurance. Xx

[AnnieBrooke]

I understand *that* you are worried.  I am just wondering *why* you are worried.  You said "I am so worried and obsessing."   Was the sex with the other guy something you are trying to hide from your partner?  If so, you are more likely to be anxious about that than truly thinking the dates indicate a problem.

[AnnieBrooke]

(Meaning, no amount of reassurance about the dates will solve the problem, since that's not really what you're worried about.)  But if you can work on the thing that is really causing you the anxiety, you will not only find your fears leaving you, but also will stop obsessing over the dates.  :)

[AnnieBrooke]

And, did you get the due date from an ultrasound, and was the ultrasound early in your pregnancy?  Just trying to see how accurate the DD is.

[Ddc0109]

I am In The UK

[AnnieBrooke]

And incidentally, September 15 conception date does not implicate sex on the 27th of August.  

Did you get your due date from your first ultrasound?  Did you have that ultrasound rather early in the pregnancy?

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, are you in the UK or the US?  Because in the US, 08/06 is August 6, and in the UK it is June 8.  I want to be sure I understand your numbers.