Is she really pregnant?

[Kitekid]

To start of the story I met this guy a while back from a friend around January we all decided to get an apartment together. The guy and i are now dating and have a baby on the way. His ex has constantly called harassing us( my boyfriend my and our roommate) try contacting us on Facebook all because she didn't want him to start dating me. Well early February we found out we were having a baby and she kept calling us and harassing us so I finally sent her picture and said you need to leave my family alone. A week later she breaks into our apartment while me and my boyfriend are out on a date. Our roommate immediately calls us and we called the cops and we rush to the apartment. When we get there she saying that she's 10 weeks pregnant with his child, how ironic. She shows us this picture of the sonogram on her phone. Didn't even bring a print out. This picture looks fake, she said that she went to the hospital thinking she had a cyst on her ovary's and that's when she found out she was pregnant and she had took in a picture of their equipment. I called the hospital asking if they would ever let anyone take a picture of their equipment and they said 99% of the time they would never allow that. We had a press charges and she was no longer allowed to contact us or be on the property for 180 days or she would go to jail. So there was no contact and the only thing she ever posted about being pregnant on Facebook was boy or a girl coming out soon still no ultrasound print out picture posted no "oh my gosh guys and having a baby" no pee stick positive posted. I found out a three weeks pregnant And i posted my pee sticks on there with a huge paragraph saying how happy, lucky and blessed I was. I've made a post about things that I like and dislike regarding food. I've posted body changes. I've posted print outs of my ultrasounds. So I'm now 12 weeks pregnant which would make her 21 weeks still no printouts of an ultrasound picture on her Facebook no tummy pictures no nothing. She recently contacted my boyfriend saying "we really should be friends were having a baby together." He asked her for a picture of a print out of a ultrasound and she said that her grandma takes them and keep them that she can't get them which makes me confused because this is her child? She then tells him that she has an appointment this coming Wednesday and that show make sure to send him a picture of the equipment again. She had also sent him a belly picture that look like she was pushing her belly out nowhere near what a 21 week pregnancy would look like not a full circle tummy it looks like she's bloated. Her belly button isn't even sticking out. This honestly doesn't sound like a real pregnancy but I wanted to ask off for y'all opinion.

[AnnieBrooke]

I wouldn't immediately judge a woman as not being pregnant based on what she puts on Facebook.  While there are women who will happily post for the public to read every detail of their cervical mucus, abdominal bloat, conception date, and all the photos from ultrasounds (including their names), there are also creeps out there who get off on photos of pregnant women, people who steal identities, old boyfriends who are vindictive, and all kinds of other reasons a woman might not put such information out online where just anyone could see it.  It is hard to judge whether someone against whom you had to take out a restraining order is in the first category or the second, but just the absence of mention of pregnancy on Facebook doesn't mean the absence of pregnancy.

Your boyfriend could put it to the test by asking to go to her doctor's appointment with her, or I guess because of the restraining order he could ask if some relative of his could go with her, like his mom or his aunt or his sister.  If she's sure he is the dad and has nothing to hide, she would be glad to have someone like that come along, so she can show she is telling the truth.  If she refuses, it suggests that the whole thing is made up more strongly than her Facebook posts.

If this idea gets nowhere with her, all your boyfriend can do is tell her that he will see her for the DNA test when the baby is born, and continue with the restraining order in the meantime.  I'm sorry that you are still living where she knows where you are.  I'd consider moving as soon as the lease is up.  Good luck.

[Kitekid]

We moved hours away so she couldn't find us, we've thought about that as well. Just see if she does give birth then we'd go down for a DNA test. It's just really stressful being pregnant and someone breaks into your home and constantly finds way of harassing us.