Not proud, need answers

[Macysmith]

So i am not proud of this ?
My boyfriend and I were together for three years. We broke up end of March and I slept with an old friend. Well now I am 8 weeks and 2 days pregnant. I do not keep track of my periods because they are so scattered. I have endometriosis and PCOS. I was sleeping with my boyfriend all of March all the way up until March 25th or 26th. We broke up on March 27th and on March 31st I slept with an old friend of mine. The old friend has diabetis he wears a pump at all times. I did read that this may mess with him being able to get anyone pregnant. Now when I was sleeping with my boyfriend we never use protection and im not on bc. My boyfriend and I dId not do anything to avoid pregnancy he would Orgasm inside of me. The old friend that I slept with we slept together once and he did not wear protection and he did pull out. I know that it is not 100% safe either. I am just trying to tell the whole story so I can get some serious answers. I feel just awful for this! My depression this is causing me is horrible.
I went to the doctor on May 6th the ultra sound tech told me I was 7 weeks and 2 days. I explained my situation to her and she told me that I concieved between March 15th -29th. Those numbers are so close to the 31st that im so worried. Can anyone tell me when they think I may have actually had intercource and gotten pregnant could it be as late as March 31st?? Please do not judge and if u have a mean comment just keep it to yourself I have enough going on that I just can't take anyone telling me how horrible I am for this I know already.

[Macysmith]

I was talking to my boyfriend and he and I were talking about last time we were intimate and he said that on the 28th we had been together and I completely forgot he spent the night that night we were already broke up but that's does make me feel better but still worried

[Macysmith]

Yeah she measured the baby and gave me 7 weeks two days. which I remember having a period around the begi ing to middle of March. So those dates make more since   but the doctor and the ultra sound tech new I wasn't sure about my period so they decided to do a measurement of baby and do the ultra sound that early but I told her my concerns she told me that I concieved between 15-29  but still 31 is only two days away makes me so worried gosh

[AnnieBrooke]

I get March 30 as estimated conception date based on the count the ultrasound tech gave you of 7 weeks 2 days on May 6.  That was what you said, right?  

This could certainly be your boyfriend's baby, since sperm lives in a woman's reproductive tract for 4 - 6 days.  The question is how precise an ultrasound is at 7 weeks 2 days, in order to rule out the sex with your friend one day later.  I think in the early 7th week it could be spot on -- I had an ultrasound myself at 7 weeks 1 day (a date I knew for sure because of doing IVF) and it was absolutely right.  But I believe some doctors might say "give or take a day or two," to be conservative.  This would not ease your worries, I guess, if a doctor said it to you.

[Macysmith]

But I just believe what my doctor and ultra sound tech said jot what the Internet doctors said !

[Macysmith]

I'm worrying myself sick to death I just want so bad for him to be the father f he isn't he already had said if I slept with someone else and the baby wasn't his he said to me prepare to do this alone! Because I will be gone for good and I just laughed and he said but when we broke up U weren't with anyone so no need to worry right I just said Nope not at all it's just stressful

[Macysmith]

Well yes I do think so. But I wrote tothe doctors online and told them the situation and all the dates and he wrote me back and said that conception was April 1st but count back two weeks from that ? And I wasn't understanding why he said that. Idk if he meant I conceived April 1st but had intercourse two weeks before and got pregnant.

[marleni12]

But to.be honest I really think is his since u had sex with the other guy in the end of the month
N the doctor even say that u conceived between 15-29 so dont u think is hes ?

[Macysmith]

Yeah once baby is born im doing DNa but I don't want to tell him before make him worry whole time and change the way he is right now because he is so freaking excited

[marleni12]

Yea but I think the u should tell him or wait to do a dna u never know it could be the other guy but since u say yu n ur bf had sex in march through 27 then yea I think it is hes an if ur doctor say the u conceived in march the 15 -29 n u had sex with the other guy in the 31 than I really think is ur bf for sure it is

[Macysmith]

You think baby is my bfs? God I hope so! We broke up and we got back together last week of April :/ I haven't told him and I do not want to if I don't have to:(

[marleni12]

I think the is ur bf