PLEASE HELP

[Sirena2016]

I don't know if this is the worst story you've ever heard but it's the worst story I have been with my boyfriend for over 5+ years. As crazy as I used to be back in the day, whenever we got upset all I did was sit around in my house waiting for him to come by and talk. Not too long ago I started losing hope in our relationship, I started partying when we got into an argument and I was ready to let go. I went out with an ex on April 17, we hooked up that night and it was fine until my bf planned a getaway for us the following week as a surprise, that was April 23-24, everything was fine until he got into another argument and I was like, Im done. The first day of my last period was April 7 or maybe the 9th. On April 30th (May 1st rather, since it was midnite) I went out with my ex again and we hooked up again. I didn't use a condom with my boyfriend at all on the weekend we were away, he came and it didn't obviously matter to me. With my ex I used one but not the entire time and since we had drank so much he didn't even get to that point. I got an ultrasound a week ago and they tell me that I am 6 weeks and 3 days (on saturday june 11) and that my conception date was probably around 5/10 or 5/11. My bf says that he remembers ejaculating in me around that time because we already thought I was pregnant but I don't remember much else, been back and good since this whole mess and he couldn't be happier but I keep on having doubts. I didn't start feeling symptoms until around June 6 or so. Also... since we wanted to know if I had gotten pregnant on the weekend getaway I had taken one clearblue pregnancy test (with the weeks estimator) on May 16 & May 17 and got a negative result. Took one the following morning for better accuracy and got another negative results, had no symptoms either and still no period, was expecting my period on the 10th-12th. I am aware that the chances are unlikely but I thought id ask for somebody's opinion to have more of an idea of what options I have. PLEASE HELP!!

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, you got an ultrasound "a week ago," but today is June 23.  But the one you're referring to is the one on June 11, there was no ultrasound on June 16, right?

If June 11 was the only ultrasound, it sounds like they are you telling you conception was on or around May 11 based on your ultrasound results and not counting forward from your last period, which is good.  (Are your cycles long or irregular, by any chance?  April 7 to May 11 is a long time.)  Anyway, sperm from your ex would not have lasted in your system from April 30 to May 11.  If April 30 was the last time you had sex with anyone else besides your boyfriend, it seems clear the sex with your ex didn't produce the pregnancy.

I guess I should say this is good if *you* think it's good.  It sounds like you have a rocky road with your boyfriend, making your last comment about "to have more of an idea of what options I have" kind of poignant.  Do you want to raise a child with a boyfriend with whom you have arguments and storm off and say that's it?  Do you want a child whether or not you stay with his father?  That is a tough lot of questions.