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Posting for a friend! HELP

Okay so my friend found out she was pregnant on friday! Okay she had sex with a her bf on April 11th had her period April 14th it lasted for 7 days and was normal!Then had sex with her bf again April 30th/May1st it was after midnight so technically may 1st! She's freaking out because there telling her she's five weeks and there's no way she got pregnant on April 11th right? It had to of been May 1st right? We're confused! Please help!
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They vary honestly my levels were very high from the start in the thousands I don't remember the exact number and the dates are too close to tell it can take a week to fertilize an egg... It's good she was honest with them both and I hope they are excepting this it'll be hard but it's just a waiting game now
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They gave her a blood test today and that's what the results were! 411
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Does anyone really no what the hormone level is for being 5 weeks they said here is 411
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She should just ask a doctor they'd be more helpful. And tell her not to stress that will affect the baby she just needs to remain calm and remember the baby is first priority. Dna test would be the safest so there is no confusion.
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Not pregnancy test lol paternity test
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Oh she has told both of them! The second guy has mental problems that he didn't tell her about until after the 5 days they had sex! So we're trying to figure out if the baby would have the disabilities! We just need the right care for them at this point
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She's gonna definitely gonna get a pregnancy test! It's just at this point his bashing her as well as other people! Yes she made a mistake but a baby is a blessing and we don't kno how to explain it to him because he doesn't understand pregnancy talk lol!! Oh gosh I'm feeling very bad for her at this point and trying to ease her mind a little bit! She's stressing and it's not a good thing!
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Sorry but you should tell both guys. Take a paternity test when the baby is born because you don't want to tell one guy it's his when it's really the other guy. Best of luck to your friend
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Guy 2 is most likely the dad. They count from the first day of your last period, not from when you conceived. So technically she's only been pregnant for 3 weeks but they'll say she's 5 weeks.
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This really puts us at ease because we have stressed all day! She even went to the hospital and got an ultrasound! She's freakin out! She doesn't want to go through the pain of not knowing but we just have a feeling it's his!
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If shes 5 weeks then its most likely from april 11th. It is possible to still get a cycle after conceiving. Another thing is that the dates doctors give you can very often be wrong. Theyre just estimates bot accurate all the time so she may not even be 5 weeks and be only like 3 making it may 1st's baby. The best thing to do is take a dna test at this point.
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Guy 2 is the dad. The doctor goes from the first day of your last period. Like with me I was 5 weeks when I found out but really only 3 weeks because I had my period two weeks before I got pregnant. The doctor should explain this all when you go in for your first prenatal
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Okay she wants me to be honest lol, April 11th is one guy and April 30th/May1st is a different guy! So which one sound more like daddy Guy 1 or Guy 2? Please no bashing
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