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ok.. here we go.... In October.. I got pregnant by my current boyfriend... and well this month in December I am almost 3 months now.... I had unprectected sex with my sons father... does that still make me pregnant by my boyfriend..??? i know stupid question...please help...its worryin me to death..
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162784 tn?1227299650
When was your last period and when was your pregnancy confirmed?  And on what dates did you have sex with your current boyfriend and your son's father?

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my last period was oct 8th... and i took to home pregnancy test and both came out positive.. and i had sex with my sons father.. for the first time at the begining of Dec.. after the 8th
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i had sex with my boyfriend on the 14th and 15th a weekend.. and had sex with him again...the next weekend after the last... and had sex with him again from Nov 20 through the 25th :)... and had sex with my sons father for the first time in december..
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I think it's safe to assume that if you took your pregnancy tests BEFORE December, and that was BEFORE you had sex with your son's father that your current boyfriend is the father.  That is, if you are 100% sure you were already pregnant.  You can't get pregnant again after that long period of time.  The only time you can get pregnant twice would be if you ovulated twice in the same month and this happens WITHIN a 36 period. That's rare but it happens.  That's how you get fraternal twins.
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162784 tn?1227299650
Meant to say 36-HOUR period when ovulation can happen twice.
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yes i took my pregnancy 4 days after my missed period in November and again a the end of the month. i havent been able to get to da doctor everyone has been booked..
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This type of behavior will make it hard on your children. I know because....

My mother was very young when she had me. She was only 15yrs old. Her family life was not the best, and I blame her parents for not taking more of an interest in her life. Being a parent is a LARGE responsibility in life not to be taken lightly or put second.

Anyway, she had been dating my "Real" father for three years. She left him and started dating someone else shortly after (I think she actually started dating the new guy before she left my father). She became pregnant (turns out was already pregnant) and married the new guy. My real father was not told by her that she was pregnant. She was just HOPING that I was her new husband's baby. Well, when she gave birth to me, she found out she was wrong just by my looks. Of course she didn't say anything. She then had my half-sister a year and a half later, and was divorced by the time she was 18yrs old.

Well, for my entire life I only remember my sister's father as my father. And he was only around until I was about 5 yrs old. Then we lost contact.

When I entered my 30's I wanted to find my father to ask many questions. So I found the only person whom I knew was my dad. Once I found him, my sister told me he was not my real father. Shocker that she knew and I didn't. So I set off to find my real father and I did. He is exactly like me and I wish I had the chance to know him as a child. But since my mother played games, I lost out!

Candygirl... I am not usually harsh. However, this is not the time to play or get attention. It is not funny or even cool to sleep with two men at the sametime. You are only hurting them and your children. Take it from me .... a child who was hurt by the same behavior. It is just SAD and immature. Trust me, it will all come back and end up hurting you. My mother had to face me and tell me that she lied to me. It might seem like a game now, but when you are older....it will just end up hurting everyone.
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thank you so much YES that worried me alot.. my first mistake was sleepin with my sons father.. :( and i care about my boyfriend so I dont want to hurt him, if our baby happen to be.. my ex's... YES I AM MORE THAN Positive i didnt have sex with my sons father.. in November.....
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No, you can't get pregnant once you already are.  I have to wonder, are you asking this because you think it could happen, or you'd like to continue having sex with your ex without any worries?
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Candygirl,  if you don't know the answer to this question,  you ought not be having sex with ANYONE,  much less two different guys in a short period of time,  switching back and forth.

The answer is no.  If you're two months pregnant and you go having sex with some other guy,  your baby doesn't switch fathers in the uterus.
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thank you for the advice.. ill take everyones.. I made an immture choice by having sex with my sons father.. Im not asking to continue having sex with my sons father.. I care about my current boyfriend and hes looking foward to our pregnancy.. and im much afraid.. that it was a possiblity...

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Well it sounds like you're okay and you can assume your current boyfriend is the father.

Just as long as you're sure you haven't slept with your son's father before November when you took your tests.  Good luck on getting a doctor's appointment.  At least get your prenatal pills if you haven't already.
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Glad to hear that you are planning on staying loyal to your boyfriend from here on out. We do all make mistakes in our life. Like I said, I usually am not harsh....I just had the best interest in mind for your little one(s). Sometimes it is hard to see the larger picture when you are right in middle of the issue at hand.
By the looks of it, you don't have anything to worry about. Just enjoy your pregnancy, that is the best thing for your new baby to be and your family.
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