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My husband and I were split, divorce papers drawn. Feb 23rd and Feb 28th I had intercourse with a longtime friend after too many drinks (shame). March 6-7th I reconnected with my Husband we decided to work things out and had intercourse. We have been doing well. Based on my last cycle of Feb 17th (a guess with one day of spotting) my due date was 11/27. I had an ultra sound on April 14th and found I was 6 weeks 5 days (dd of Dec 3rd) If I go by the Ultra sound would it be safe to say my Husband is the father? Im terrified, and carrying twins. Having dreams of it being one of each!
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Thank you. I have spoken with my Dr about the situation and she had a social worker come in with some counseling options :) My husband is in a delicate place dealing with sobriety and infidelity on his behalf.
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I haven't seen a 6 week 5 day ultrasound be any farther off than (at most) a day.  I think a date based on a 'cycle' that had a one-day spotting period, is nothing.  Sounds like your husband is the father, early ultrasounds are the most accurate.

Does your husband know you had relations with anyone else when you were split up?  If not and if you intend to keep it a secret, and if you think the guilt will ride you all pregnancy, see a counselor.  I don't think you have anything to worry about, but there are ladies on this site who take counsel of their fears and just can't stop freaking out, and it ruins their whole pregnancy.  It can become a problem in the mind more than in the dates (handling guilt).  Talk to the counselor, one way to make it better is to  determine what you can do to make your husband the happiest daddy in the world, forever.  
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