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Who is my baby's daddy?

Okay so many of y'all know my situation and are all probably annoyed by all of my questions, lol I'm sorry I just don't have anyone to talk to about this and I need help. The first day of my LMP was Feb 23, I had sex with my bf on March 3rd and he finished inside me. (I make it clear that we were not together at the time but we were before our break up in a 3 year fully committed relationship) then after we had sex we stopped talking again and me being hurt and all I've always been the type that feels better with attention (I hate that about myself but my dad never gave me the attention I needed from a man) anyways, I slept with another guy on March 9th (my supposed ovulation day) then a month later I find out I'm pregnant so of course the first person I tell is my ex (now bf) because he was the only one that came to mind and he automatically thought it was his and asked no questions and I myself believed it until his mom asked for a DNA test since I had hurt him once before and he decided to put it behind us and keep strong but she still never forgot, I don't blame her. I never cheated though it was something else. So I guess then the other guy came back to mind and I been freaking out. So according to numbers I was wondering if each of yall who are willing if yall can do the math (I've already done it myself) but tell me what yall get. In all honesty PLEASE. like I said I had sex with my bf March 3rd and sex with the other guy March 9th, my LMP was Feb 23 (I'm not sure when it ended because I can't really tell when my period ends Idk if I count the brown left over blood or just the heavy days) and I've only jotted down my last 3 periods which have been Dec 25 Jan 25 and Feb 23 I'm not sure if those numbers are needed but your answers will definitely help in my decision on what to do. So please be honest with what you get, who's my baby daddy? Thanks in advance.
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Hi, star_bless,

If you would like to start a new thread with your question, you might get more responses than if you tack it onto an older thread.  I can try shifting it, will call it "Who's the Daddy -- Star Bless" and will cut and paste and see if it works.

Annie
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i had sex march 19th with my boyfriend period came on march 22nd then i had sex april 3 with someone else but when I did the conception calculator it says my conceived date was April 1-9 but my first ultrasound which was April 16th said I was exactly 6w3d.. who is my baby daddy?
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i had sex march 22nd with my boyfriend period came on.march 22nd then i had sex april 3 with someone else who is my baby daddy
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I am going to tell him soon. And talk to my doctor about my date of conception
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Personally I would say to tell your boyfriend, keeping something like this from him is not a good way to start a marriage, if word gets back to him about some other guy possibly being the dad he is gonna be more hurt.

Going off of your lmp isn't always accurately. If I went off my last lmp my concieved date would be 10/24/11 &due date 07/07/12. But since I was tracking my period. I  knew that wasn't right, at my 2nd or 3rd appt the doctor changed my due date and conception to 11/7/11 and 7/30/12, which is what I had written down from the beginning. Which is quite a differnce.
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Thanks I'm planning on telling him I just don't know how he is taking really good care of me and I'm scared if I tell him ill be alone. I refuse to go with the other guy. But I don't think my bf will leave me he will just be hurt and that's what I don't want that's what I'm afraid of
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