Hi Annie, thank you very much for your extremely insightful response. You're correct. I'm taking out time to consider why I always generate fearful issues that don't exist. Also dealing with guilt but I have come to terms with that or trying to. The excessive obsession with anxiety is the main issue I'm dealing with now. It almost feels like I cannot accept peace, I've dealt with this for years. It's always one thing or the other. One time I took over 20 HIV tests even though all the tests clearly indicated that I did not have the virus. Another time I convinced myself I was infertile when the opposite couldn't be truer. Sometimes i just sit and think about bad things that could wrong like being financially stagnant. Another time i tortured myself with thoughts that I would never get married, I am now married. I have a deep rooted anxiety problem which I need to take steps to address.
I really do appreciate your kind respond. Very many thanks for all the great work you do here.
Hi, really hope to hear from you soon. Very many thanks
When I had the trans abdominal scan with the baby measuring 5.5 weeks ( at 6 weeks and 1 day from the first day of my last mensutral period), there was no fetal pole visible, only the gestational sac. There was no fetal pole or heartbeat.
I forgot to add that in addition to ultrasound scan on 23rd February 2016, which was done 6 weeks and 1 day since the first day of my last period, which gave the following gestational sac measurement " 16.9 mm = 5.5 weeks", I had another scan on 6th april 2016. Measurement on this date ( 12 weeks and two days since first day of my last period) was "CRL 5.39 CM= 12 weeks 0 days".
The EDD following the first scan was 20th October and the EDD following second scan was moved back to 19th October 2016. This never changed even after their scan in the 20 sonething week and I delivered via planner c- section on 12th October at 39 weeks, a week before EDD of 19th October 2016. Planned csections usually conducted a week before EDD. Baby weighed 3.5kg. Can I safely assume that guy B is the rather? Very many thanks.
Hi, many thanks. I'm so sorry to bother you but would really appreciate it if you could kindly explain why you said it's guy B? I believe it's guy B too but I have deep anxiety issues so usually have troubles accepting facts. Very many thanks.
Very many thanks for your response.