ex gf that say there prego

[lively2329]

So me n My hubby split for a bit he got wit sum.girl she swear up n down she pregnant by him. They only had sex like maybe 3 times. How do I know?  Bc we was doing it. Anyway it took me n my hubby 7 months to get pregnant.  So I don't believe it is his plus she put stuff on fb talking bout seeing someone.  So anyway me n hubby back together happily. But now this girl keeps trying to talk to him n won't leave us alone what do we do?

[Jasme]

Call Paternity Court, they might be able to help you. I spoke to someone there before, they pay for the DNA test and everything [phone]

[shortanddumpy1]

Think long and hard though. If you love him and this baby is his, then it is part of you and you may be able to love it also. If this woman is every bad thing you.say, relinqishing rights will mean leaving it alone in that enviroment. I am sure you love him as he is a good man, would walking away maje him less in your eyes? Do everything via an attornory as annie suggests, but make sure if it is his you talk of all options even custody xx

[AnnieBrooke]

He should talk to a lawyer.  If he wants to relinquish parental rights, the lawyer can advise him.

[lively2329]

N neither does he he's made point clear several times she just won't quit n it's not fair to me or him we been married 5 yrs together 7. I'm 23 and he is 29 she is 26 I just wish this **** would of never happened

[lively2329]

See here is the thing.  It was a mistake if it is his. I informed her he doesn't want anything to do wit her or the kid.  Said he'd sign rights over to her. I not trying to b rude but this will b her 4 kid n none of the babies daddy want to b round her.  She's on subs n not the greatest of ppl so he is willing to sign it over to her but we just want her to leave us alone I don't want no druggie n and out our lives

[AnnieBrooke]

He should let her know he is willing to take a DNA test, but does not want any further contact until the baby is born and it is time to take the test.

He should also talk to an attorney who specializes in family law, to understand what kind of test to expect (it should be at a lab certified by the courts for determining paternity, where he goes and shows ID and there is no question that the samples won't be mixed up.  In other words, no drugstore test.)  If the baby is from him, he will need to make some plans regarding child support, and the attorney can advise him about that also if the test comes out positive.

[EllaMari]

Dna test is the only way. She may be telling the truth.