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8 to 9 weeks ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend June 2nd.
A day or two after that I had sex with my ex. I believe he came inside of me. I'm not to sure if my boyfriend or my ex would be the father of my unborn child. I'm currently about 9 weeks 3 days.
Is there any advice to whom the father would be ?? I've been with my boyfriend since and we have had sex many many times with no protection.
A day or two after that I had sex with my ex. I believe he came inside of me. I'm not to sure if my boyfriend or my ex would be the father of my unborn child. I'm currently about 9 weeks 3 days.
Is there any advice to whom the father would be ?? I've been with my boyfriend since and we have had sex many many times with no protection.
COMMUNITY LEADER
In other words, in case I'm not being clear:
- if a doctor, not you looking at a calendar, told you that you are 9 weeks 3 days pregnant, it would mean you conceived around 7 weeks 3 days ago.
- if that were the case, your boyfriend was the only one who would be in the right time range to be the dad, is that right?
If you decided by looking at a calendar that you are 9 weeks 3 days pregnant because that is when you had sex, that is not the way pregnancy is counted. You need to count from the first day of your last period.
So, please say:
- When the first day of your last period was
- When you had sex with guy 1
- When you had sex with guy 2
- When you had an ultrasound (if you did)
- how far along the ultrasound person said you were
- what your estimated due date is based on the ultrasound
This might be easier to figure out than you think.
- if a doctor, not you looking at a calendar, told you that you are 9 weeks 3 days pregnant, it would mean you conceived around 7 weeks 3 days ago.
- if that were the case, your boyfriend was the only one who would be in the right time range to be the dad, is that right?
If you decided by looking at a calendar that you are 9 weeks 3 days pregnant because that is when you had sex, that is not the way pregnancy is counted. You need to count from the first day of your last period.
So, please say:
- When the first day of your last period was
- When you had sex with guy 1
- When you had sex with guy 2
- When you had an ultrasound (if you did)
- how far along the ultrasound person said you were
- what your estimated due date is based on the ultrasound
This might be easier to figure out than you think.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Also, how did you get the "9 weeks 3 days" figure, was it from a doctor? I think you could be mistaking the way pregnancy is counted, and think it begins on the assumed day of ovulation. If so, this is significant because it might help to rule out one guy.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Did you sleep with your anyone after June 4? Such as around June 10 or 11?
If the two encounters were only a couple days apart it really could be either father. Sperm can live for several days, so it really is a toss up. The only way to know will be through a paternity test.
I have my first ultra sound aug. 8th. But when I took a test at the clinic she said I'd be due march. 3rd.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hi, have you had an ultrasound? If so, how early in the pregnancy? And did they tell you a due date?
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