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im confused

hi.. i have a boyfriend buti slept with other guy last august 31, sept 8 and 28 2014 and we have sex,he did not ejaculate it inside. i have a delay menstration on month of august, i took a pregnancy test on september its negative, and i think in middle of september my period came, but i really dont remember the exact date when my mentration on september started, and november 3 i took a pregnancy test again, its positive, when i took my ultrasound december 11 2014, im 13weeks pregnant.. it is possible that the other guy i slept with on september 8 is the father?
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Given that your ultrasound is from your thirteenth week and not earlier, there is a margin for error of +/- 7 days or so when using it for dating pregnancy.  You say you slept with a guy who is not your boyfriend on September 28?  Were you also sleeping with your boyfriend around that time?  
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yes.. im also sleeping with my boyfriend around that time, and we always do unsafe sex.. he always ejaculate it inside..
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You asked specifically about the guy from September 8.  If he is also the guy from September 28, he is a candidate to be the dad, but not because of anything that happened on September 8.  You got an ultrasound that said you were 13 weeks on December 11.  This makes the September 8 date too early, the one that is worrisome is the September 28 date.  But if you were having sex with your boyfriend a lot around that time, there is no way to tell which man would be the father.  Your ovulation would be projected to be around September 25 plus or minus 7 days.  So, September 18 - October 1.
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yes.. same guy in september 8 and 28.. even we used the pull out method during that time.. it is possible that he is the dad?
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Your ovulation would be projected to be around September 25 plus or minus 7 days.  So, September 18 - October 1.  That does make both guys possibly the dad.

Your boyfriend has the edge, but pulling out is not a guaranteed method of preventing pregnancy.  Have you slept with your boyfriend for a long time always unprotected and never gotten pregnant, or is the boyfriend relatively recent in your life?  
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yes.. we always do unsafe sex for a long time..
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There is at least a chance that the other guy is the dad.
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