my baby, (maybe?)

[ms_Lady30]

Found out some pretty disappointing things recently. My ex told me she has been sleeping with her ex several times while pregnant with my baby (my first, her fifth). In a text she just told me she had slept with him match 17th. We had slept together the 23rd I think. She has her period between then as the due date is Dec 27. I've been to eevery appointment and she's measuring one or two weeks ahead. Could it be possible it's not mine? So many mixed emotions

[AnnieBrooke]

I don't think I would begin to roil the last-name waters until you have crossed the DNA-test bridge.  

[ms_Lady30]

One more thing. Opinions on last name. Her view is to give him (my boy?) the same last name as her other boys, which is her ex husbands last name. If he is mine, I would be very upset with that decision

[ms_Lady30]

Thank you for the help. I will try to get answers, but might be a lost cause. I really don't know what to believe anymore.  

[AnnieBrooke]

Oh, the first time you slept together was March 23?  That is different than if it were the last time you slept together.

Sex on March 17 has nothing to do with this pregnancy.  Neither does the sex on March 23.  What you need to know is who she slept with around the first week of April.  If it was only you, you're the dad.  If it was both of you, then a DNA test will be needed to iron it all out.  Frankly, I'd expect to have one whether or not she tells you that you were the only guy she slept with, since she's already been proven to be unforthcoming on the subject.

[ms_Lady30]

yes the first time we slept together was around March 23rd I believe and we were together until October. this whole time I believed it was mine until she admitted that she had been cheating while she's pregnant that led to arguments. and then I received a text message saying that she had slept with him March 17th. and I do remember the first time we slept together that there was slight bleeding she said she was just getting done with her Period

[AnnieBrooke]

Honey, if the due date is December 27 and the last time the two of you slept together was March 23, you are not likely to be the father.  

How did she get her due date, and how early in the pregnancy did she get it?  Did the two of you sleep together anywhere around April 5?

[shynjahmya]

I'm really not show about all thay stuff but she is so .... ugh I hate women like that .... just nasty but just get a DNA test is the only way to be show but it sounds like yours .... mii due date is December 11 nd I conceived around March 17-23 she two weeks behind me so it might be yours