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no negative comments PLEASE

So Iv asked before but I want to ask again before I make my decision,....:(
my LMP was 8/29/2014
I missed my period SEPTEMBER but took a test OCT.1st and it was NEGATIVE
So I took this as I'm stressing & false alarm,,
I then took a test OCT.6th just to take one since I hadn't started and it was a FAINT POSITIVE so next day I went to a free clinic and they took a test as well & was faint & they decided to take a U/S & A TRANSVAGINAL U/S on both test you couldn't see the baby, I then ask "am I really pregnant" she said I probably was still early & possibly only 4 weeks.....
((I for got to mention ON SEPT 8 I made a mistake to have sex w my ex bcuz me & my bf were mad but my ex pulled out before he had to *** and came on a T SHIRT))
Well I had also explained to the DR what was going on & she told me she didn't think my ex could be the father but to come back in 3 weeks to see if we can see the baby (which I would b 7 wks.)
so on OCT 27 I went to a diff location and they did the U/S there too and the baby measured 6wks 5 days
I didn't tell them what was going on but the measurements are about the same as the other DR had told me
I haven't seen a DR yet, but this is totally getting the BEST OF ME I cant eat right sleep right I'm depressed & I want to know is there a possibility my ex can be the father ..... I don't want to hurt my bf so I need to know opinions and what yall may think please :(
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Your sis goes to school for nurseing and she tells you that secretly I think she likes seeing you suffer

My opinion if u had your periods late august assuming you might of bleed 2-5 days then the 8th would be too early.
If ultrasound says your around 10 weeks then minus 2 weeks off and see who you slept with around those dates.

Pre *** dosnt contain sperm unless he ejaculated before you and your ex had sex.
Im going through something similar I worked out my ex could not ov been the father
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Reason im confused bcuz im suppost be 11wks going based off the last u/s on OCT27 but ima see what the OBGYN says tmr and post
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So i went to a free clinic but they said i was 10wks 3days by measurements, im so confused w that....tmr i go see a obgyn ill keep you posted
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Talk to your doctor, not your sister-in-law.  Eggs don't last 14 days, embryos might but not eggs.  "It didn't release early" does not make any sense.
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I'm trying so hard to convince myself with that but my sister in law says something about a egg lasting in your body for 14 days and I probably got pregnant the 8th and it didn't release early so there's always the possibility which scares me a lot
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134578 tn?1693250592
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I think you conceived around the 20 - 22.
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forgot to mention on OCT 7th when I got the ultrasound the due date was JUNE15,2015
on OCT 27th the due date was JUNE17,2015 just couple days off
but going from my LMP my due date is JUNE 5,2015

GOING BASED OFF CONCEPTION CALENDERS FROM MY DUE DATES

DUE DATE:JUNE5,2015
OVULATION: SAT. SEPT 13,2014
CONCEPTION:SAT SEPT 13,2014
IMPLANTATION:SEPT22,2014

DUE DATE:JUNE15,2015
OVULATION:SEPT23,2014
CONCEPTION:SEPT.23,2014
IMPLANTATION:OCT2,2014

DUE DATE:JUNE17,2015
OVULATION:SEPT25,2014
CONCEPTION:SEPT25,2014
IMPANTATION:OCT.42014

My sister in law is going to school for nursing but tells me don't believe none of these internet calculations and she just makes it worse for me make it thru the day all I do is sit and think, I jus want to be sure but I also know that the PULL OUT METHOD doesn't always work bcuz theres PRECUM someone just pls help me ease my mind
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