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I'm A ftm and I believe I made the biggest mistake of my life. I never had a regular cycle it will last 4 days if it even comes and would be very light. Around Early April I got with my current boyfriend. Things moved very quickly we started having sex very soon. But I also was getting very sick and had to take a lot of trips to the ER of course they check for pregnancy they were all negative. So Early May I had a OBGYN Appointment she didn't check for pregnancy but I asked her with my irregular cycle could I still get pregnant she stated yes very much so  soooo a few weeks later my cycle or what ever this was came on for 2 days then stopped then 3 days later it started again lasted for 2 more days WEIRD but me and my boyfriend went through a break up and the end of may I had unprotected sex with some one from my past then June 14 I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant could there be any way this is not my boyfriend baby and its the other guy I'm due in 12 weeks Feb 4th
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Or possibly even earlier.  So, what do you mean when you say you had sex with the other guy "at the end of May?"  May 31 exactly?  
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134578 tn?1693250592
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When, exactly, in the last week or so of May (say, from the 22nd through the 31st) did you have sex, and with whom?  From your story, I am thinking you conceived around the 24th of May.
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Will, its probably your bfs ... Lol I didn't have sex with nobody else. But I've always wrote down the days I have sex. Lol I don't now since I'm pregnant. But me and my hubby tried to have this baby. Lol we had sex every other day from the day my period ended until the day I got the positive. Lol
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No my bf doesn't know but the other guy does I told him when I found out I was pregnant and told him I was 5 weeks and he said well it can't be his baby he was kinda upset but I was happy I really want this to be my bf child he's super excited and knowing everything I put him through this pregnancy I wouldbe totally embarrassed
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What was the date of your last period?
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10515800 tn?1419227034
If you broke up at the end of May and you found out two weeks later you were 5 weeks pregnant,  I would say that it's your boyfriends baby. But the only way to.know for sure is a DNA test.
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Its prolly your bfs. Bc the first month it gives u 4 weeks. But blood test would be the best thing. Have you told this to ur bf?
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10717578 tn?1424828229
Too close of a time frame and given that your period was irregular. The period like bleeding could have been implantation bleeding as well. Hard to tell... sorry.
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