who is the father

[tsootsoo]

I had sex with 2 guys, guy1 was early December and guy2 was on the 26th December.my lmp was on th 23rd of November.my baby was born on the 29th of August. Who is the father?

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, it sounds like the first guy is the dad, like you conceived around December 7.  If the baby is here, what is stopping you from getting a DNA test?  Then you won't have to live with the what-ifs.

[tsootsoo]

Hi annie thank u, but what are the chances of the second guy being the dad? The first guy is my boyfriend and I'm scared to tell him what happened. I asked the second guy who happens to be my ex to do the tests and he refused.

[AnnieBrooke]

It sounds like the baby is from your boyfriend.  It sounds like you conceived around December 7.  I don't know how to assign "chances" to that.  Ask your boyfriend for some baby pictures of himself and compare to baby pictures of your baby (photo to photo) and you might see a resemblance enough to put your fears to rest.  

[tsootsoo]

Thank you very much annie, I will definitely do that

[tsootsoo]

Unfortunately I did my first scan very late, 1st scan 3rd April 19weeks due date 28 August , 2nd scan 2nd july 29weeks due date 17 September, the doctor said the baby was really small plus i was hardly showing at the time. 3rd scan 15 August he just said I will be due in two weeks time 30 August