whos the father? Help

[lucyinthesky12]

Please don't judge.

My LMP was May 1st and my due date according to ultrasound is February 11th.




Has sex with multiple partners

(GuyA):  
I was with him May 5-8, 12-16, 19-21
Not sure which days we had sex but we did it alot when we were together.


(Guy B):  
Just had sex May 24th


Any opinions besides rude ones, please and thanks :)

[AnnieBrooke]

From the 9 weeks 4 day ultrasound, it sounds like you conceived around May 17.  This is not such a commanding lead in favor of the first guy that you never need worry, but it is (even with the margin for error of +/- 3 or 4 days at that point in pregnancy) suggestive that you were already pregnant by the time you had sex with guy B.  I think that is the best you're going to get, unless you have a prenatal DNA test.  In your shoes, I would be cautiously optimistic that the baby is from the first guy, and would definitely test (with the second guy only if you must) once the baby is born.

[lucyinthesky12]

My LMP, gestational age and due date dont all add up, but if I put them into a conception calculator they all end uo saying its Guy A.

[lucyinthesky12]

I got my ultrasound at a free clinic and they told me I was 9 weeks and 4 days on July 9th, but it doesnt add up with my Due date.

[AnnieBrooke]

How did you get your due date?  Did you have an ultrasound?  If so, how early in the pregnancy was the ultrasound?

[lucyinthesky12]

I used conception calculator and they all saidit was guy A from due date.  Also Guy A from LMP and since iI dont know my cycle I checked and it can be his all the way up to cycle 35.  

[gueritacali]

http://www.perinatology.com/calculators/Due-Date.htm  go to that website might give u some sort of an idea

[adoremadelyn]

It's more likely it's guy A's , but since nobody can tell you for sure get a dna test when the baby is born :)

[gueritacali]

Only way u can be more certain as to when ur conceived is knowing ur ovulation I was im in ur situation but knowing my menstrual cycle and when I ovulated really helped me good luck .....

[lucyinthesky12]

Not really su how long my cycles last.

[iLovekjoy2]

If you have a 28-35 day cycle, I'd say guy A is the father...but if you're not sure its best to get a dna test!

[gueritacali]

How long are your menstrual cycles?

[jaelee104]

I would say most likely guy A but a paternity test is the only way to be sure

[specialmom]

It sounds more like guy A to me as well.  However, I think you'll probably need a paternity test to be sure.  good luck hon

[mummainoz]

I'm gonna guess guy a.