Iam 54 female with clean brain MRI, Brain CATSCAN, CLEAN eco, and g=good croartery test. All ordered after waking up to right side of body numbness, in ability to move arm and leg for 3 days with slurred speech. Other known symptoms before this happened,

I am 54 female with clean brain MRI, Brain CAT SCAN, CLEAN eco, and a clean croartery test. All ordered after waking up to right side of body numbness, in ability to move arm and leg for 3 days with slurred speech. Was told I had had a stroke for 3 days until MRI came back clean.  Other known symptoms before this happened, trouble with swallowing, daily spasms/jumping of legs,pain in lower right leg for 7 months that moves up into groin area,  Marcus Gunn Jaw Winking, right eye that closes and wont open through out the day and at times of sexual intensity and tiredness, confirmed decreased in short term memory by test at Shepard Center, sensitivity to the sun & heat, face feels like a pall is over it on right side, and I am in menopause. I awoke with continued weakness and numbness on right side but refuse to go to hospital because they will say stroke and never get to bottom of this.   WHAT IS GOING ON with me? I have been previously  diagnosed with degenerative disc disease but had injection 18 months ago and have been ok up to now with pain. I ruptured disc L3,4 5 and S1 and had surgery 20 years ago with ok results.  I have  had Sojournes for  25 years wit dry eyes, mouth and lady parts but no other problems,  and arthritis of the spine but not sure how that presents itself, and right side facial paralysis due to unknown episode.  What type of doctor should I see and what questions do I ask.  I have  been told I have had a stroke twice only to have the CAT scans reverse their opinions. Any suggestions? My blood pressure is under control and I take daily fish oil, C,D, and B. Could this all be related or just symptoms happening at the same time? Thank you for your consideration.