Depakote and Ejaculatory incompetence

I'm bipolar and I take depakote 1000mgs a day, and adderall (adderrall), 20 mgs a day. But I'm concerned that I still have problems with both erectile dysfunction (which Levitra helps greatly for) and ejaculatory incompetence. I'm 56 years old, and I've been faithfully married to my wife of almost 25 years. I'm tired of disappointing her when I'm erect and have a hard time ejaculating, and on other occasions not being able to fully perform even the basic minimum task of vaginal insertion.

Is there something we can do to mitigate the situation and enjoy our relationship w/o having to make any changes in my  medical routine?

[Roger Gould, M.D.]

There are couples counselors specializing in sexual issues like this and they are very successful approaches...that is something you can try, and will probably help.