Whats wrong with me?

I dont know whats wrong with me, im only 14 years old and i dont know where else to go for advice.
I think im either stressed or depressed, just lately ive been feeling really down.. friends keep asking whats wrong and i tell them theres nothing wrong when really i feel like crying. I have days were the slightest thing really will annoy me.. ill go to my room and punch a wall or something. sometimes im so angry i cry! Im also not eating much at all.. my boyfriend tells me im going anorexic but im not at all.
Sometimes when im so down i scratch my hands till they bleed. it hurts but i dont care at the time.. it scars too
Whats wrong with me !? :S

[Roger Gould, M.D.]

charlotte, there may be nothing " wrong" with you, but you are going through a difficult time figuring out what is going on in your mind, and there are many  possibilities...Please ask your parents to arrange a counseling session for you with a psychologist who works with girls your age..that is what you need to sort out what is going on in your mind....

[zack32]

Sometimes what you are going through is all a part of growing up. Having a relationship so young can also be a cause of great stress. It is hard enough to cope with relationship issues as adults, never mind as a teen. Especially all the pressures you face in school with your peers.
As far as scratching your self until you bleed, obviously that is not healthy. It is good that you can recognize that. I think it would be very important that you talk to someone, that you can trust, about how you feeling. It may be hard to tell someone how you are feeling in person, so maybe write a letter to say your mom. Tell her how you are feeling and what you do. Open the door for a way to communicate your feelings. Parents can be a great source of unrealized comfort.
Well I hope goes well with you. ( I am not a doctor so please if you need that kind of help please seek one out. You could always talk to your regular doctor about it and they can give you advice as well. If you don't feel comfortable talking to a parent.)

[Linda2962]

I would seriously tell your parents what's going on with you.  They can be your best source of help.  I wish I had been able to tell my mom what was going on with me when I was 18.  As it was, I had a teacher at my high school who was on top of things and guided me to the school psychologist.  If you have a teacher at school you know you can talk to, do it.  

[charlotte243]

Im going to start conceling soon as i went to a doctor with headaches and he said it could be stress.. i think alot of it is to do with my boyfriend and also my grandad passed away almost two years ago and his annaversary is coming up, my little sister is a destroying the family and is really selfish, she doesnt care about anyone but herself. And ive recently been told im anemic too. My lifes going down hill. These past few weeks all ive done is cry or self harm. I havent told many friends but they keep dumping there problems on me too but i feel like i cant refuse to listen. :(

[Mery143]

Maybe nothing is wrong with you, just STOP and think to yourself to see what really bothering you.  When you figured it our yourself try to do something about it.  To tell you something about me when I was 14 I ended being the same way, get to know that I was pregnant and my hormones was wacky so see if its that get check.  And if you are dont worry ilts not the end of the world I know have 3 and I have a blast with them,

[oterra]

I am 44 years old. I have been married 12 years and have an 8 yearold.
I can't snap out of my feeling of worthlessness. I have no desire for sex and it is gotten to the point where I dread going to bed at night because its just another opportunity to reject my husband. he's a decent husband and provides for us. I love him & my son, but feel horrible that I can't get "into" having sex again. Sometimes it just feels like a chore.
what's wrong woth me? I do take an antidepressant, and have felt better at times, but it feels as thought i'm either ultra "happy high" or very "low". I'm tired of my mood swings, and don't know how much more my husband can take, before he leaves me.