Hello concerned mom1212,
Believe it or not. Everything that you describe about your daughter, I have been experiencing since my teenage years, I am now 32 and still do not know what I have. On top of feeling "not real" and having sinus problems, I also get very nervous around people outside my immediate family. Maybe social phobia? I also experience slight speech problems when I'm in social settings, sometimes it's impossible to get a word out because I totally lose focus.
I've been to several shrinks. Each shrink gave me a different diagnosis, one said I have ADD, the other said borderline personality disorder (BPD, and yet another said I have mild depression. I rarely get depressed however, and when I do it's very mild. I have read so much material on ADD that I am almost certain I don't have that. I read loads of books on BPD, and I found that I experienced nearly every symptom described.
I can't tell you for sure that I was diagnosed correctly, I never got a second opinion. But I know what I read in those books. The most painful thing about living with BPD for me is not having a social life. It's extremely difficult for me to "let people in." I go to work from 9 to 5, Monday thru Friday, and that's where my life with the outside world ends. At 32, it seems that this is my destiny, and I think I've accepted it. No one seems to be able to help. I have stopped medicating myself because If loneliness doesn't kill me the meds will.
Please have your daughter checked out by a professional. I'm not saying she has BPD, but when you said she described herself as feeling not real, it struck a chord. The shrink that diagnosed me with BPD, the first question he asked me when I stepped into his office is, "What do you feel?" my response was, "Not real"
I wish you the best of luck with your daughter
-Dorian
The not real feeling can be a very important sign of something more serious that requires psychiatric attention. It could also be nothing at all,but I think it is worth a consultation with a qualified psychiatrist who can also prescribe medications for the various anxieties you describe. This should be handled by a specialist, not a general physician.
I have this feeling like everyday. I feel really foggy headed. Like I'm asleep but I'm actually awake. I really think that I have these feelings in my head from the Effexor I used to take 4 or 5 months ago. I posted a question on the undiagnosed symptoms that the title is EFFEXOR WITHDRAWEL SYMPTOMS. Feel free to read it if you like.